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I want to talk about two things here, let me know what you guys think:

1. Self-development is the fastest way to meet women organically

INTRO

We all love to look for shortcuts in life. I know that success is not about how much work you do but how effective your work is. Many people don't reach their goals because they think it's too much "work" to achieve them. What if I say they're wrong. I know for a fact, and I'm talking from experience, that you can do minimal work and still reach your goals. The catch is that the work has to be high quality to mean something. 

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 Let us say we are socially awkward and lazy. We also want to learn and master the secret techniques to attract and seduce women, but we all know that's a long way to go. 10- 20 years of consistency to actually master a skill and become a specialist? Fuck off.  

To some extent, you can't master pick up without having your life in order and doing what the physiotherapist call "the inner work." Meaning, finding yourself, which consists of understanding your personality and creating healthy esteem through self-development. Sure, this can be your passion, and you dedicate every hour of the day to talk to women, and I'm 100% sure you'll get quick results, but most of us have lives and dedicate our hours doing something else, like scratching out balls watching Attack on Titans, or work. 

The fastest way to attract the people we want in our lives is to focus on ourselves first, and the rest will come quickly, like talking to a random girl at the bus stop.

It could be hard when you have low self-esteem and don't even like yourself.... how do you expect her to like you if you haven't done the inner work?

What do you think?

Do you think self-development plays a huge role in acquiring the skills to attract women naturally without forcing? 

 

2. Day Game Lines and Approaches

Everybody has strengths and weaknesses... I'm aware that I'm very good at creating a comfortable and sexual premise with any girl as long as I'm already comfortable with her. But on the other hand, I suck at the most critical part, the approach. My major issue is not being comfortable at the beginning of the interaction when I first meet a girl. I need to work on this; I also want to post my experiences, the lines I use, and the women's reactions and dialogue. I'm sure this can help a few people. We can learn from our interactions by implementing the positives infield and pre-empting to avoid the negatives.

Let me know what you think.

 

                 -Your Friendly Neighbor Big D

 

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Lots to go at here.  If you're "broken" in some way, pickup is not going to help you.  It's always been holistic, and no "box of tricks" will elevate your sexual market appeal without the fundamentals in place (basic self esteem is one of them).  I just picked out this quote from my mindset book, Primal Seduction :

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I am willing to bet that something more than idle speculation compelled you to buy this product. You want to become more attractive to women. And not just any woman, but the type of woman that will attract and inspire you. She will have the kind of look, energy and character you love.

First, let me give you a few harsh truths. I’m not going to hold your hand and tell you that I have found a simple solution for picking up women or getting the girl of your dreams to fall in love with you; this book embraces reality in every approach presented. It’s a jungle out there, a raw Darwinistic battleground of every man for himself , so you need to accept that and apply your best efforts. .

You want that girl? - So does every other guy. She’s a hot, young girl with a sweet smile and tight ass so of course she’s in high demand, and she’s not going to sleep with just anyone. Getting a beautiful young woman to engage with you, sleep with you, and stick around in your life is a major achievement that is beyond most men.

Here’s the reality: High value women sleep with high value men

Written by me, Primal Seduction, 2014.  Available on..why this very forum, actually. 😄

So yes, inner game is in my view equally as important as technique.  And I'm not just talking about liking yourself..The biggest risk for the affable game enthusiast who has self esteem is lack of balance, lack of ambition, and having nothing else in their life..

After all, who wants to be 40 and have achieved not much more than walked the streets for years on end? As you get older, high value girls will NOT forgive you this stuff.  It's not cool.

Equally, you can have broken links with your technique.  But it's better to start from a good point, to basically like yourself, to have integrity, rather than trying to slather pick up technique over a broken core. 

There are practical ways to work on both - I do go through the the mindset in Primal Seduction, and the outer game - the nitty gritty of the approach , in the Secret Society.

As we've talked about , I think you have a really good base to work from. I am genuinely curious how you will get on when you work up to some approaches (next weekend?). 

Re lines - say what you are comfortable with - but do try and use those mini routines we talked about, and remember to inject your humour.  Also don't forget the walking by her side trick to cut the social pressure.

 

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On 5/5/2021 at 6:52 PM, David F said:

 

To some extent, you can't master pick up without having your life in order and doing what the physiotherapist call "the inner work." Meaning, finding yourself, which consists of understanding your personality and creating healthy esteem through self-development. Sure, this can be your passion, and you dedicate every hour of the day to talk to women, and I'm 100% sure you'll get quick results, but most of us have lives and dedicate our hours doing something else, like scratching out balls watching Attack on Titans, or work.

"Doing the inner work" is a vague statement. To have self confidence you've got to be good at something, and it has to be something that other people want to be good at too. Your career in particular is important, even if you hate your current job, being good at it is important.

Getting results at the gym like Steve just did can also be a source of self confidence. If you are fucking up at work and aren't getting results at the gym there are usually underlying reasons for this. Poor current health in my case. Women don't bother trying to figure out what the root problems with a guy are, they just get turned off by his lack of confidence. Women are attracted to confidence because it is actually difficult to fake.

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