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To give a bit of background, I'm 34, born and bred Londoner living in SE London. I did my first ever cold approach in 2016 and have dabbled in approaching ever since. I've barely got any numbers, I think only one girl I dated and zero lays off daygame in London but based on my limited experience seem to be very well received in Poland.

I'm probably a little bit on the autistic spectrum (Aspie), 5'10, athletic body, go to the gym 1-2x a week, keen interest in biohacking. I'm trying to focus on building a strong reality, cutting out things that are bad for me etc. 

I wouldn't say I've ever really had a gf but I've had short-term relationships. Ideally I would like to find a gf  - I'm not just looking to dick a girl down.

I've spent a lot of time on dating apps such as Hinge  and while I can easily get women out on first dates, probably less than 10% want to see me a second time. I do a few occasional spontaneous approaches in London but vast majority result in blowouts.

I did a couple yesterday around Oxford Street on my way to some shops and both were blowouts. The first one I swooped in a bit too much and angle was poor which may have startled her. Second girl was very polite but said she was in a rush. 

I probably struggle with going from comfort to attraction etc. I'm a reasonable guy, decent IQ but work a very logical, analytical job.  Introvert by nature but when I go out 2+ times a week having fun socially, my social ease and skills noticeably improve.

I live with my parents and rent out my flat as prefer the comfort of living in a large house in a quiet road to living in a small one bed flat by myself but have to fly the nest sooner or later, stand on my own two feet etc. I also don't drive but should get round to getting my licence soon.  Other ways to increase my SMV could be improving my wardrobe which isn't bad but far from brilliant.

I'll try to keep this blog going to detail my approaches. I'm looking to be creative in when and where I approach and not just pound the over-worn streets  e.g. will try Kings Cross, Westfields, Fulham (Russians), Ealing  (Polish), Chelsea (fit birds), Croydon (local charm) and also coffee shops, libraries and attending evening networking/drinks events, Meetup Groups etc.

If anyone is in London and serious about improving, then PM me and we can go out and tell girls they look French together 😉

Thanks for reading

Mark

 

 

 

 

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Saturday October 2nd

HaveACuppaTea (HACT) had messaged me shortly after I started this journal as he was keen for us to do sarge it up together in London.  We met yesterday afternoon at Liverpool Street station at around 2PM.  The conditions for approaching were not ideal as it was raining cats and dogs all day and a little bit chilly but kudos to us for not making our excuses and still going out chasing skirt.

Before leaving the house, I tried on a few different items of clothing and became aware that many of my outfit combos have me looking like far too much like a man who should be at home with his Wife and 3 kids, in his mid-40’s and driving a Volvo.  I want to look a bit more like a “lover” albeit I will never push it as far as Tom Torero’s leather jacket and T-shirt apparel.

I was wearing brown leather boots from Dune (women judge men a lot by their footwear), blue Diesel jeans (comfortable and stylish), brown belt to match the boots, Hugo Boss grey polo shirt (polos are a must if you have a decent upper body), Calvin Klein red and black jumper (perhaps a bit garish), Hollister black coat (comfy but too many logos) and Garmin black Fenix 6S watch (I’m a biohacking geek but Rolex would get the panties down quicker).

We were out for total of 4.5 hours and rather than give you a blow-by-blow account of each interaction, I’ll instead try to highlight any salient points and try to focus more on useful info than what I thought the girl’s favourite colour or sexual position was.

Locations

  • Bear in mind the weather was rainy and a bit cold, so good areas can become bad and vice versa. On the day, the best areas for approaching were Bond Street, followed by Liverpool Street Station and Oxford Circus.  
  •  Bond Street had a few smoking hot girls including a girl from Warsaw who I swear could have been a supermodel, as she went from aisle to aisle on the lower ground floor of Boots every single man’s head turned, while their jaws dropped with bulging eyes.  Unfortunately, our interaction didn’t really go anywhere but she was classy and graceful.  Just before the Tube at Bond Street there are two floors with fast food places and a few retail shops and this is a real hidden gem. The women aren’t in such a rush as they are at Oxford Street but still a lot of hotties.
  • Liverpool Street station was surprisingly good with a cosmopolitan mix of women. The downside is some birds will be waiting for trains as they live in other parts of the UK. The upside is it’s not too manic, women are generally waiting around, it feels fairly open and there were quite a few pretty girls around.
  • Places best avoided, at least yesterday were Westfields (Stratford) and Spitalfields Market. Westfields was complete chaos, too crowded, overwhelming, people rushing and many families and Spitalfields was similar, not quite as hectic but hard to find stray hot girls.

Approach Review

  • My willingness to rush into set was great. I rarely hesitated and felt confident enough to charge into most interactions with only probably a handful of occasions where I weaselled out.
  • Vocal projection and tonality were decent. I’m sure my testosterone levels are good right now having been a bit more dedicated to lifting weights, minimal cardio, mostly in a calorific surplus and supplementing with Zinc Picolinate twice a day. I also haven’t fapped in maybe a week which I find helps a little bit.  Girls definitely read a lot into a man’s voice in terms of judging his confidence and assertiveness. You have to speak to them with conviction and intent. If you don’t buy into your own reality, then she definitely won’t. The woman is your mirror.
  • I tried not to “hide my dick” and tried to amp up the verbal escalation with some girls, notable interactions being a Lithuanian perfume girl at House of Fraser, Bond Street who blushed several times behind her mask but she had a bf, Armenian lady who was flattered but showed me her wedding ring, Romanian girl who said she had a bf but “I looks good!”.
  • I had fun trying to be a bit more playful, in the moment and not every interaction started with a compliment e.g. opened a smoking hot English blonde on Oxford Street with “I know the weather is even more British than me but I had to say you look absolutely beautiful.” She laughed and said that’s a good chat-up line and wandered on.
  • Gaming with a wing felt so much easier than going solo as it feels more sociable, there’s much less effort needed to manage your emotional state, bounce back from rejections, stay motivated etc.  HACT is a top guy and also very keen to approach, not like the typical lunatic, self-centred maniacs you often meet chasing skirt on the streets.
  • Best to avoid girls who are wearing the mask as it’s unlikely we’ll see eye to eye and my one attempt was a blow out.
  • I have to get better at keeping the conversation focused, not descending into idle chit chat and mixing up spikes, teases with comfort and rapport.
  • If a girl seems to be drifting out of the convo, just keep talking, “Million Dollar Mouthpiece” as RSD Tyler used to reference.
  • James Tusk said in one of his recent videos that these days the number one place he approaches is in coffee shops and I think they are a real hidden gem. You get major brownie points for having the balls to do it as well. Women are generally startled but flattered.

Summary

  • Daygame is superior to dating apps in terms of access to attractive women, authenticity of communication. It will also test your social skills much more than texting a girl.
  • The hottest girls I approached clearly wouldn’t waste their time on dating apps. The time they’d have to spend to filter out guys and likelihood of being overwhelmed would make this asinine.
  • Fashion stores are better than more family orientated ones e.g. House of Fraser trumps John Lewis.
  • I think Oxford Street is an overrated place for approaching and I’ll try not waste much more time there. I’ve done dozens and dozens of approaches there and I think logistically you have a street that is insanely busy, girls darting in and out of shops very quickly and it’s been spammed to death by PUAFortniteWillywonka_7 and his mates. Much better to focus on nearby quieter side streets or even Bond Street.
  • London currently feels 95% the same as it did pre-Covid for approaching. I didn’t wear a mask the whole day, nobody seemed worried when I approached them, reactions to my openers were largely very positive.
  • Quality of women in Central London is good as I was seeing a decent number of girls worth approaching every hour. But anyone who claims the quality is better than in Kyiv probably walks with a white stick and yellow Labrador.  In Kyiv I wanted to chase every second or third girl and London will never be such a place but you do get more variety here.
  • HACT taught me about camping in a coffee shop just off Oxford Street where you can watch the talent walking past and then run out to approach. I liked the passive lowkey style.
  • Personally, I’m going to try to become obsessed with daygame again like I was when I first got into it in 2016. I’m going to brainwash myself via listening to quality daygame podcasts (Tom Torero’s ones on YouTubes are absolute gold) and reading books from the best PUA’s. Jabba, Torero and Krauser being my favourites. I find reading their stories of the highs and lows of chasing skirt to be very inspirational.
  • I’ve known some gamers to go way overboard using daygame as a crutch for their naturally addictive, compulsive personalities to gravitate towards.  Ultimately, they become consumed by it and will stop at nothing to get more numbers, lays etc. Losing jobs, health and friendships. Thankfully I’m old enough to not lose myself down this rabbit hole as I have good relations with my family, take pride in my work, have many hobbies, barely drink and exercise regularly.
  • The aim with this point is to ascend from “blue pill” ideologies that trying to chat up a random girl on the street doesn’t work and is desperate, stick to dating apps / social circle, play small, settle for a fat English bird etc.  Don’t leave your comfort zone. Stay home watching porn, shooting your genetic code into a Kleenex and pay your money to escorts and Onlyfans girls.
  • There are also the doomsday people who are so forlorn with the state of the world, decline of Conservative, Christian values, rise in totalitarianism, reduced sociable mobility and personal freedoms that they mismanage their mental feed and emotions and naturally become depressed, angry, bitter etc.
  •  While I’m absolutely pissed off with the current Global agenda etc. Talking about this shit to chicks will not get them dripping wet. Daygame should be fun, light and playful and is ultimately about reclaiming your balls as an authentic, powerful man.

Scores on the Doors (Approximate)

Approaches: 22. Phone Numbers: 0.

This was my first extended daygame session since I was in Gdansk, Poland (wonderful place) last September and my norm is the occasional spontaneous approach around the West End while I’m going about my daily business with 95% blowouts. Yesterday I managed to get a number of girls to stop and talk for a while, so that’s perhaps some progress. I can’t claim any really “hooked” as I would have got their numbers and most of the ones who stopped were in relationships and just being friendly.

I need to go out more regularly and practice, as it is both an art and a skill that can be greatly improved, while there is also clearly an element of randomness.

Current Goal

  • 5 phone numbers by the end of October.

Thanks for reading any feedback/questions are very welcome.

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Great writeup Alomongerpete. Jesus christ. I tried to be this detailed in mine, but you got everything nailed down perfect. Well done

PUA_fortnitewillywanka. Please tell me you made this name up to describe street tards and that's not his real name!.. haha  hilarious

I've noticed the mask thing is low probability as well.. as a hail Mary and just for funzies, I'll try to force an ioi by just absolutely eye fucking them, looking them up and down craning my neck, Flexing my lats, 'bending my eyes' on them and see how they react. If I get anything but indifference I'll just try to make something happen (like a fun little challenge) my vibe has to be pretty good though to be honest massive win when you get it right. Feel like an absolute wizard 🧙‍♂️

Speaking of vibe, I've been keeping up with current events with sites like vox day and anonomousconservative and you are dead right. Not good to talk to girls about. Furthermore, it'll fuck your vibe in subtle ways and distort the lense that you project your personality through. Girls notice it all. If they're young and hot, at least in the west, (America here 🙋‍♂️)they see youre all spun up, when they live in a world of rainbows, bunnies & unicorns and think something is off..... maybe this guy is a weirdo? I took a week off recently and immediately noticed my spirits lift and sets got better. 

22 is a pretty impressive work rate and my feeling is, just by the way you write, that youre going to tear it up. Thanks again for the juicy..... Long.... Thick...Writup (;

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11 hours ago, Mullet said:

Great writeup Alomongerpete. Jesus christ. I tried to be this detailed in mine, but you got everything nailed down perfect. Well done

PUA_fortnitewillywanka. Please tell me you made this name up to describe street tards and that's not his real name!.. haha  hilarious

I've noticed the mask thing is low probability as well.. as a hail Mary and just for funzies, I'll try to force an ioi by just absolutely eye fucking them, looking them up and down craning my neck, Flexing my lats, 'bending my eyes' on them and see how they react. If I get anything but indifference I'll just try to make something happen (like a fun little challenge) my vibe has to be pretty good though to be honest massive win when you get it right. Feel like an absolute wizard 🧙‍♂️

Speaking of vibe, I've been keeping up with current events with sites like vox day and anonomousconservative and you are dead right. Not good to talk to girls about. Furthermore, it'll fuck your vibe in subtle ways and distort the lense that you project your personality through. Girls notice it all. If they're young and hot, at least in the west, (America here 🙋‍♂️)they see youre all spun up, when they live in a world of rainbows, bunnies & unicorns and think something is off..... maybe this guy is a weirdo? I took a week off recently and immediately noticed my spirits lift and sets got better. 

22 is a pretty impressive work rate and my feeling is, just by the way you write, that youre going to tear it up. Thanks again for the juicy..... Long.... Thick...Writup (;

Thanks, Mullet. It was a second draft. The first was talking about every little interaction and sent me to sleep.

Yes I made up PUA_fortnitewillywanka but I met a lot of strange guys back in the PUA "Attitude Era" as me and a mate call it around 2016 when London Daygame peaked (before Julien Blanc scandal).

Nice work you're getting some decent interactions with masked girls and on the plus side they are probably highly impressionable haha. But this whole Rona madness has made the world a much more polarised place. I want a girl telling Fauci to go suck a death needle and not one who complies and takes in the arm (or any other part of her anatomy).

Yeah I check Summit.news and Paul Joseph Watson a fair bit and it can get very depressing but some of it is highly fear based and it can't all be true. We're all programmed in some way.

Thanks for the compliments and for reading. If I stay motivated, I'll definitely have fun and hopefully get some good results. Fapped last night which wasn't very smart. But I rebound much quicker from that as take 30mg zinc picolinate, a lot of maca capsules and calcium carbonate (lowers prolactin) twice a day. I like self development and think every person should be doing something but you don't have to be Tony Robbins to pipe down chicks.  As Tom Torero pointed out in "I Hate Self Development" podcast, most of the best players he knew were basically total degenerates living messy, chaotic lifestyles.  But this will take its toll in other areas.

 

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19 hours ago, Alomongerpete said:

Thanks, Mullet. It was a second draft. The first was talking about every little interaction and sent me to sleep.

Yes I made up PUA_fortnitewillywanka but I met a lot of strange guys back in the PUA "Attitude Era" as me and a mate call it around 2016 when London Daygame peaked (before Julien Blanc scandal).

Nice work you're getting some decent interactions with masked girls and on the plus side they are probably highly impressionable haha. But this whole Rona madness has made the world a much more polarised place. I want a girl telling Fauci to go suck a death needle and not one who complies and takes in the arm (or any other part of her anatomy).

Yeah I check Summit.news and Paul Joseph Watson a fair bit and it can get very depressing but some of it is highly fear based and it can't all be true. We're all programmed in some way.

Thanks for the compliments and for reading. If I stay motivated, I'll definitely have fun and hopefully get some good results. Fapped last night which wasn't very smart. But I rebound much quicker from that as take 30mg zinc picolinate, a lot of maca capsules and calcium carbonate (lowers prolactin) twice a day. I like self development and think every person should be doing something but you don't have to be Tony Robbins to pipe down chicks.  As Tom Torero pointed out in "I Hate Self Development" podcast, most of the best players he knew were basically total degenerates living messy, chaotic lifestyles.  But this will take its toll in other areas.

 

How dare you say the masked girls I've hit on were impressionable!?!? they were all 11/10 catwalk model greyhounds m8. Fuck you...

 

. No I love you. You're cool

Duuude I fapped too and It fuvked my intent for a few sets too.. but dude. When I first read that... I was dying laughing thinking "bra I fapped too maan" haha woops, fist bump hahaha forgive me I'm a little shmammy on wine at tm fuckin funny.

You should meet up with Tom. He ioi'd you (;

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17 hours ago, Tom said:

This was great! I'll probably be in London sporadically over the next year as my brother lives there, I'd definitely be up for meeting and gaming with you 🙂

Thanks Tom. I appreciate that. Would be good to game with you. Just drop me a message a few days in advance.

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4 hours ago, Mullet said:

How dare you say the masked girls I've hit on were impressionable!?!? they were all 11/10 catwalk model greyhounds m8. Fuck you...

 

. No I love you. You're cool

Duuude I fapped too and It fuvked my intent for a few sets too.. but dude. When I first read that... I was dying laughing thinking "bra I fapped too maan" haha woops, fist bump hahaha forgive me I'm a little shmammy on wine at tm fuckin funny.

You should meet up with Tom. He ioi'd you (;

Yeah women can sense when a man could really take their pussy to pleasure town or when even after 3 blue chews they'd still have to get their magic wand and 12 inch black monster affectionately known as "Tyrone" out to finish the job. 

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No game updates - was so tired today from work and staying up late that vowed to postpone some street action until tomorrow. 

Various situations in my friends' lives have brought this to light but in short I have at least a couple of friends who I've invested a lot of time in over the years but I've finally woken up to the fact they are leeches and our lives are on different trajectories.  I'm consciously having much less to do with them but more to the point I want to make new, better friends. I know a lot of people but don't have a buzzing social circle. I've often found it hard to make friends but have a few ideas as follows;

  • Sports - I enjoy playing squash and due to the plandemic they shut down the local league but I can hit up my local town's Facebook group and find some opponents. I also used to play quite a bit of tennis but lost my passion for that. I also am now acutely aware how much cardio can eat into your gains in the gym if you're naturally a skinny guy.
  • Meetup Groups - I'm part of various groups and some of them can be quite lively. I've gone to the Jordan Peterson one at Highbury & Islington a few times and some of the guys there are on a similar wavelength. There are also generic "Young Professionals" groups which are good for a piss up in a nice establishment although I'm always more drawn to chatting to the birds.  
  • Wings  - I made a few friends when I first started approaching about 5 years ago and I vibe best over common interests with obsessive, compulsive eccentrics.  I'm sure I could also gain some wings through networking events.
  • Bars - My all time favourite night life venue was the legendary Kensington Rooftop Gardens which unfortunately shut its doors in 2018. I used to stay there drinking till 3AM, mingling with all kinds of people from banking executives to female models. It had wide open spaces, the music was rarely that loud and you could seamlessly mingle with all kinds of people. If anyone knows a similar establishment where you can easily mingle with people and the vibe is good, let me know. I'm not into dancing or loud venues.
  • Members clubs - I've been to a few private members clubs and like the ambiance and the fact they keep out Chav scum. I stumbled across Capital A List where you pay £30 a month and get access to a variety of private members' clubs. Could be good for networking as well as smashing high class poon; https://www.capitalalist.com/london-club/ However I can't think of any friends who would join me in this so it might be a solo experiment for a couple of months.  I'm on the fence about this.
  • Character development - ultimately who you connect with stems from who you are so continuing to work on myself, improving social skills through game, living purposefully, not wasting too much time, improved fashion, getting outside my comfort zone etc. should all help. We have more control over our self image than most are conscious of.
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Interesting. I had a thought about friendships the other day. 

I have a lot to say  on the topic actually so brace yourself for a complete unadulterated gamma like wall of text!

tldr; friendships are harder to kindle post covid but there's still hope. Best friend breakups aren't fun but you learn a lot from them and what you want out of friendship.

Ok so theres something going on where I'm at that has changed the dynamic so much it seems like there is an extra barrier to new guy friendship development. Heres what I think it is:

Every guy here is thirsty. Thirsty as fuck for pussy. After all the lockdowns and a lot of people moving away, it has created an absolute vacuum. The ecosystems in place pre covid kept everything civil because there was balance and tradition. A lot of what kept the ecosystem the way it was, were the people. And they've since moved to avoid the impending California tyranny.

Now, we're at each other's throats to try and get laid all at once. The ratios of guys to girls is almost 70/30 not quite but almost.. some days a little better.. Gone are the days when there was an abundance of new talent trotting around and you could buddy up with guys and shoot the shit about this girl or that. Now It is endless bitter scowles, undermining and brazen value tapping attempts. EVERYWHERE. Yeah the sexual market has always been competitive but God damn..is it now. In my estimate, it's going to get worse as everyone is coerced with the cultural agenda that's been playing out for that past 100 years. the jabbed and purebloods, blacks and whites. People economically frozen out for dissenting political opinions, while others can have gang shootouts in broad daylight repercussion free. That's the new dynamic (here in America at least). It's so polarized these days that it seems to me that you'd better know your values they'd better know theirs and there must be a real match there. Anything less is doomed to fail.

I like what you said about character development though and It's so true, you know. It's all you really got. Two things. The moment and your decision to become better (not bitter[haha stole that from RSD Julien]) you seem like you're putting yourself out there a lot which is actually really cool.  It's making me feel inspired to put myself out there a bit more too. I'm very standoffish naturally but I think it'd be better if I at least allow something cool to come about ya know.

My best friend of 20 years and I split a few years ago because he was so used to clueless chode me. I began on my game journey, improved my charisma and started working out and he didn't like that I was improving myself in effective ways. I knew his little manipulations, what his angle was and everything (because he was my friend for 20 gd years ffs! haha) I began to out maneuver every thing he tried (frame control: which came from literally hundreds of dates, prolly like 200 at that point. I call it frame dojo) he threw in the towel and kicked me out of the place we were sharing rent wise(he was primary) and hung out only one time after that. 

During that one reunification, there was a weird tension, his girlfriend was drunk and started crying saying I didn't pay enough attention to her, I was thinking this ain't good but by buddy wanted me to talk to her.. so as one last token of trust and friendship to him I went to go 'talk with her'. As soon as we sat down, I knew what she was doing, it was obvious. Dupers delight kept creeping across her face.. So I pretty much immediately looked deeply into her eyes and gave her a psychopathic look of 'I know your game and you can fuck off'.  She absolutely spazzed out into a helpless sobbing monkey rage to try to get my buddy to kick me out.. but couldnt say it and had no footing. I just got more giddy, jokey and zero fucks given. I kept it up because my best friend and I were boys. We were playing Mario party, sipping beer and having a laugh. just buzzed and cracking jokes. Her hatred and seething rage toward our bonding mounted into a craschindo of fists flying at me. She got me good, top of my head twice before I realized, and just about unleashed such a savage uppercut I'd probably be in prison right now.. at that perfect moment of reconing, she acrobatically launched herself backwards into an adjacent couch because she knew, in her bones, that she was mere milliseconds away from pure, post leg day, testosterone filled, savagery... she stared at me with arousal.. our eyes locked in a primal gaze. One that's been going on between girlfriends and bestfriends for millions of years. It was kinda cool in a weird way.. but she knew she'd won..

and here's why..

After the dust settled she stormed off angrily mumbling gibberish.. then left the house to Drive drunk and we continued playing the game, sipping beer and fuckin off. I just kept beating my friends ass in Mario party making sure he knew it!.. But then I realized she adjusted a ring to hit for maximum effect. There was a knot on my head and the fucker kinda hurt. I touched the little bump and said  to my friend "damn your girl has quite the punch." Now we locked eyes in the same way we always have in disagreements. And my heart sank.

I said semi serious "dude your girl just punched me in the head. That's fucked up"

And guess what happened. The thing we all knew would happen..

He went ahead and denied it straight to my face. When pressed, proceeded to gaslight me and to defend her.

That's exactly when I thought aaw sheeeit.  I knew. Without a doubt. The friendship was fucked.. No amount of fun and palling around would make up for a complete denial of cold faced reality, at my expense. I have built up too much self esteem for that nonsense. So I put down the controller and bounced. Never looked back.

I've been imbued with a real sense of control and after that. Also my boundaries are stronger and more defined and I am more confident now that if I meet a cool guy we could be friends. Im just more plain honest with myself. But I mean nothing can replace a childhood friendship like that, but that's OK with me. I'd be down with something like Jimmy and Steve. They just gell and it's cool. Fun. And interesting. Like pure value. None of this fuckin weird shit people put up with for convenience and filling the feeling of lack. Anyway maybe I'm oversharing but I've definitely rambled enough!!!

Thanks for the post 

God speed on your journey to find badass dudes to hang with 👊

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Hey Mullet

Thanks for the share. Cracked me up that during this deep conflict, you were talking about getting buzzed and playing Mario Party. Mario Party 2 was probably the best in the series. Sounds like you found out who your friends are. When men ditch their boys over a woman, that's so lame but unfortunately not uncommon. I also know a few guys who I maybe get to see once every other a year. No joke. And during that time their Wife gives them a permission slip for 2 hours of socialising. I swear to God I won't ever let a woman control my time like that.

The key with all this is that we're becoming the men we want to be and if we lose friends because of this, then let the chips fall where they may.

Here in the UK we seem more moderate than the Cali madness you speak of. Of course, the pure bloods VS the experimental sheep has created some division but I've not heard about it stopping women and men getting together.  On the dating apps here most give you the opportunity to state if you've had the Fauci ouchy but you can also hide this field. Not that I'm on any of those time drains at the moment. Your local ratio of men to women sounds awful. In the 2011 census in London, we had 51% women to 49% men. I have no idea how it would look in 2021 but of course we have plenty more immigrants. 

Have you considered moving to Texas or some other Red state that never betrayed Trump?

 

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Friday 8th October

I’ve been working from home since March of last year so can be very flexible with my hours but we officially finish at 4 on a Friday, in any case. I quickly got changed into my “sexy man gets birds” outfit and jumped on the bus to Brixton.

Today I was wearing brown leather boots from Dune, blue Diesel jeans, brown belt to match the boots, grey French Connection t-shirt underneath my black Hugo Boss shirt (it was cold), Hollister black coat and Garmin Fenix 6S Watch (black). I possibly looked a little bit too black but tucking the shirt definitely looked better than untucked, showing off my belt and jeans.

Locations

  • I started out approaching at Oxford Circus walking through Carnaby Street, made my way through Soho to Piccadilly Circus, a couple of approaches in Whole Foods there, up to Covent Garden, wandered into Charing Cross Station as it was getting a lot darker before walking back down Oxford Street to get the Tube down to Brixton and home.
  • I wandered inside shops such as Boots, Superdrug and even McDonalds but I think Whole Foods was the only place I approached.
  • Perhaps it’s all in my head but I think Saturday and Sunday daytime is likely an easier time to approach than Friday night. Many Londoners are so busy wanting to go out or finishing a few errands before their night-out begins, that to get a girl to stop and give you a few minutes, is likely a bit tougher.
  • On a more positive note; there was no shortage of good-looking women, the footfall was decent and very little Covid awkwardness. 

Approach Review

  • My baseline stress levels were higher than last Saturday and I think this impacted my ability to loosen up, be playful etc. If I could change one thing right now about my interactions, it would be for me to be less serious and more playful.
  • I wanted to keep myself entertained and not just spam Oxford Street like an uncalibrated retard so I purposely wandered into a few stores that I thought might have different kinds of girls than typically walk the notorious promenade.
  • I’ll do a post in the near future talking about my ideal woman and the wonderful ladies I’ve met who have inspired this archetype but I will say I have a soft spot for girls who are slightly shy, introverted, thoughtful, brunette, girl-next door types.
  • I’m not sure why I struggled so much to project my voice as well today. With my Wing (HACT) last Saturday I felt like more of a social butterfly and this is something I need to better understand.
  • There were a few girls willing to engage in conversation with me but I still end up struggling to lead beyond the initial opener. I think I have a pre-meditated belief that it will likely be a blowout and therefore I only need to fill 10 seconds of communication. I think more “time under tension” as they say in the weight room will help me to flow more but perhaps, I need to work on some core subconscious beliefs too.
  • If I got what I thought was a fairly negative reaction from a girl sometimes I’d almost write their own excuse for me “do you have a boyfriend?”. Although interestingly enough the second approach I did in a Soho side street had a British Oriental Girl confirm she was indeed waiting for her Boyfriend but that he wasn’t around yet. Clear hypergamy signals. I sensed this but as soon as I hear she already got a dude dicking her down I make my excuses.  Maybe I’m too much of a White Knight but I don’t want girls who are anything but loyal to their partner even if she is dating an absolute chode.
  • On the way home my penultimate approach was a hot brunette who I assumed was Russian, she took of her earphones and we spoke and turned out to my amazement she was English. You have to enter the interaction with the Zen mind, the empty mind, being nothing, ready for everything.

Summary

  • Plenty of positives here for a second proper session “back in the game” including good work-rate, highly varied approaches e.g. store girls, inside the Tube Station (Metro/Subway to foreigners), on the Tube.  
  • Good use of the environment, to a girl at Whole Foods, “I’m wondering if you could help me find something here as sweet as you?”.
  • Calibrating my tone and approach to the environment, soft and discreet approach to Waterstones shop assistant who was very sweet and clearly touched but had a Boyfriend.
  • As usual, the girls most uncomfortable with being approached were the native English girls. Girls from Mediterranean countries and former Soviet Union were totally cool with my intentions and largely at ease.
  • As James Tusk said in one of his videos, the Oriental girls in this country are the least open race to being approached, they simply walk off without saying a word. It’s bizarre but I will likely avoid them going forward like the Fauci jab.
  • I’ll definitely do more book stores and other places where you can be quieter and more chilled.
  • Need to improve vocal projection, playfulness, relax the body and mind more and keep the flow of the interaction going. I’ve been doing some called the Feldenkrais Method that has been a Godsend to improve physical and mental flexibility for me and cultivate relaxation. I can write more about that later.

Scores on the Doors

Approaches: 15. Phone Numbers: 0.

  • During this session after every single approach, I pinged myself on WhatsApp so that I could keep a log.
  • The above was all in the space of 2.5 hours from 17:45 to 20:15. So very busy times in the right in the heart of London. While it’s not a bad “work rate”, in hindsight there were a few girls approached purely out of lust while my intuition said we were totally incompatible. However, it’s better to approach too much than make excuses and approach too little.  

Thanks for reading any feedback/questions are very welcome!

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Saturday 9th October

Today was a very special session as I had the opportunity to meet Steve Jabba to do some filming.  We met around 1PM and went from there. The main focus of the day (no pun intended) was on capturing Steve in action so I only did about 3 approaches.

Bizarrely one of them resulted in me getting the phone number of an international pop star who has over 400m views on one of her YouTube videos. She was hot with long blonde hair and dressed creatively but stylishly and I can see from her Wikipedia page she’s 21. To protect her anonymity, I won’t be sharing any further details. 

She was on a high street sorting out her shopping bags and I rolled up “I can see you’re on a shopping spree but I thought you’d look cute”. Nothing too elaborate. To be frank, it was a “talking about the weather” interaction. All comfort and no real spikes/attraction. When she told me she was a famous international popstar, I made the right move and didn’t get big anime eyes or look at all impressed and just said “oh your songs must be very cheesy then?”  She said they were but she enjoyed it. It was very vanilla but I found out where she lived and said we should go for a drink sometime. She put her digits in my phone and drop called herself – it was not a throw away number.  I asked her how her name was spelt and stupidly shot her the initial text without figuring out who she was via Google and I spelt her name wrong. No response.  

It could well be a blessing in disguise as perhaps she mostly dates dudes who have a mill in the bank and drive Lambos but the bottom line is I closed an international popstar and it’s good to celebrate small victories.

I reconvened with Mr Jabba across the road and he told me I should have brought more sexual tension to the conversation and that’s why some girls will flake.

Being around Steve and spending hours chatting with him was very helpful and key points I took away;

  • Steve told me to ditch my coat and the shirt I was wearing. In his words; the coat made me look like a trainspotter and the shirt like I had just come from the office. I’m going to buy a much cooler jacket, likely a leather jacket and might just keep the coat for local trips as it is warm and practical. I’ll also think about my shirts.
  • He thinks every man needs to create an avatar of himself, a personal image that women find sexually desirable. Play to your strengths. Steve is in very good shape so the smart T-shirt showcases his physique.
  • I know some guys online who will claim “all you need is game” and while it is indeed very important, I got the impression from Steve that personal image is also extremely powerful and is one of the main things that will make or break the first 20 seconds of any interaction.
  • Steve also likes going off the beaten path and showed me some real hidden gem locations that haven’t been spammed by uncalibrated gamers. I’m not going to mention our favourite spot but I’d encourage you to think outside of the box and seek out places with good logistics and girls you’d like to meet, both areas and shops.  This might sound extremely obvious but so many men mindlessly worship Oxford Street as if all other locations are not halal.
  • He thinks many daygamers aim too high in terms of the quality of girls they approach and that pickup is easier in Poland and a man’s SMV might well go up a few points just by flying over. That’s absolutely true in my experience. SMV is not only about yourself but your competition and a Polish girl who’s a very good friend of mine said most Polish men are “waiting for a miracle” and too shy to approach a girl unless they’re tanked up on Zubrowka. 
  • I’m losing my hair and he said I should perhaps consider shaving my head. 
  • I have spent endless hours investigating natural remedies for male pattern baldness and my conclusion is that the only way to stop the process is to take hormone altering drugs, with finasteride being the most popular. It can some with many unwanted side effects including erectile dysfunction, anxiety and depression although there are some men that tolerate it well. If you want to know more then Google “post-finasteride syndrome”. Minoxidil is also popular and can be effective but also has many potential side effects such as heart arrhythmia and you need to stay on it for life.
  • You might be able to slow down the hair shedding a little bit through control of cortisol, shining a powerful red light of the right frequency directly at your scalp and use of ketoconazole / caffeine shampoos such as Regenepure. But ultimately this is like barricading your door while a chainsaw-wielding maniac is after you. Eventually your efforts will be overpowered.
  • So what’s a Norwooding fella to do? I’m not yet at a stage where my hairline has socially distanced 2 metres from my eyebrows but when it gets worse my plan is to get a hair system AKA a customised toupee.  This week I spoke with the London Hair Clinic about a bespoke, custom-made hairpiece that you glue on and prices range from £1,050 to £1,499 with them lasting for 10 to 18 months. You need to take it off every 3 to 4 weeks to give it a clean and wash your scalp.  I’ve also heard about scalp micropigmentation (SMP) but apparently it doesn’t last very long and isn’t effective long-term. I also think the main downside of going bald is your forehead looking far too prominent and SMP doesn’t address this at all.

Seeing Steve in action, being able to ask questions and get advice from him was very useful. Hopefully we’ll soon have some more infields for you keyboard jockeys to analyse. Take action my thirsty brothers and find your own Princess Zelda!

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46 minutes ago, Alomongerpete said:

I’m losing my hair and he said I should perhaps consider shaving my head.

Yeah bro, about a year or two back when I was 31 I started to shed aggressively. Luckily I found the 3 things that actually worked for me.

1. Derminator. This is a professional grade machine that uses tiny needles with millimeter selection for preferred depth. It has 3 speed settings. Slow. Medium and insanely fast please make it stop.

2. Nizerol. Or any shampoo, or any shampoo containing ketoconazole that blocks miniaturization via DHT. 

3. 5% Minoxidil. Shit works. Luckily enough I haven't noticed any weird systemic side effects. Other than increased eye brow and facial hair production and my forehead skin looks dry but isnt.

Now, I've used all 3 religiously had good results. Limited shedding to almost nothing and filled in the thinning spots. Now I only do derminator once a week and DHT shampoo every other day, only because Minoxidil is annoying as fuck, greasy. 

Here's the video that turned me onto that protocol 


https://youtu.be/uZyioqIdlU4

https://youtu.be/S7otP3lrp2M

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On 10/9/2021 at 10:29 PM, Mullet said:

Yeah bro, about a year or two back when I was 31 I started to shed aggressively. Luckily I found the 3 things that actually worked for me.

1. Derminator. This is a professional grade machine that uses tiny needles with millimeter selection for preferred depth. It has 3 speed settings. Slow. Medium and insanely fast please make it stop.

2. Nizerol. Or any shampoo, or any shampoo containing ketoconazole that blocks miniaturization via DHT. 

3. 5% Minoxidil. Shit works. Luckily enough I haven't noticed any weird systemic side effects. Other than increased eye brow and facial hair production and my forehead skin looks dry but isnt.

Now, I've used all 3 religiously had good results. Limited shedding to almost nothing and filled in the thinning spots. Now I only do derminator once a week and DHT shampoo every other day, only because Minoxidil is annoying as fuck, greasy. 

Here's the video that turned me onto that protocol 


https://youtu.be/uZyioqIdlU4

https://youtu.be/S7otP3lrp2M

I appreciate the advice. I've been a fan of More Plates More Dates for years and the way he does watchalongs and is totally open about his use of anabolics. But I think his rate of hair shed even without his biohacks isn't bad and dude is a big younger than me, if I'm not mistaken. His mate Leo and Longevity also has a great channel.

I've got a derminator but haven't used it in months mostly out of laziness and apathy. Is the one you got? https://derminator.com/

Which length needles and how long do you typically use it for? Do you try and get as bloody as MPMD or do you bust yourself open the hard way?  (wrestling joke 😅)

I think my rate of hair loss has slowed a little bit as I saw a picture of me exactly a year ago and the hairline is not too dissimilar. I've been totally off dairy for most of this year and feel that with the growth factors and it can be somewhat inflammatory (even raw grass fed) has perhaps helped a tiny bit.  

 

 

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I'm noticing benefits flowing through to other areas of my life now that I'm back approaching again. I'm much less tempted to waste time surfing the internet or watching YouTube videos purely for entertainment. Placing a higher premium on my time and thinking more about creating opportunities instead of  endless consumption and sensory stimulation.

The real challenge of pickup is that it's a performance art and you have to put the work in like any discipline, with the dropout rate unbelievably high, particularly in Winter.  You also need to find ways to unwind when at home or it can pretty unhealthy. I've been there a bit myself years ago and a friend of mine once drank the RSD kool aid believing he had to be on the streets at least 6 nights a week to get anywhere.

Even if I get into a committed relationship I hope I'll keep pushing myself to be more sociable in general. I need to make that effort or I really regress. Last night I was in the gym and the best sauna hack is to start up a conversation. The talking distracts you from any discomfort. We talked a lot about Eastern European women and I got introduced to an Irish guy who looked around my age who had met a girl in Kyiv as his Dad lives out there, she eventually came over here and married him. So the dream of importing a feminine, attractive woman is not entirely a myth but taking a fish out of water, with EE girls infamous for their emotional volatility is definitely "high risk".  I'll continue to focus on finding a true Londoner but when the vaxx madness hopefully dissipates I would quite like to hit Ukraine again.

I'm becoming increasingly confident to speak up in team meetings at work, whereas these situations often had me feeling socially anxious or not knowing my place. It's a direct result of the time spend pounding the pavements.

 

 

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1 hour ago, Alomongerpete said:

I appreciate the advice. I've been a fan of More Plates More Dates for years and the way he does watchalongs and is totally open about his use of anabolics. But I think his rate of hair shed even without his biohacks isn't bad and dude is a big younger than me, if I'm not mistaken. His mate Leo and Longevity also has a great channel.

I've got a derminator but haven't used it in months mostly out of laziness and apathy. Is the one you got? https://derminator.com/

Which length needles and how long do you typically use it for? Do you try and get as bloody as MPMD or do you bust yourself open the hard way?  (wrestling joke 😅)

I think my rate of hair loss has slowed a little bit as I saw a picture of me exactly a year ago and the hairline is not too dissimilar. I've been totally off dairy for most of this year and feel that with the growth factors and it can be somewhat inflammatory (even raw grass fed) has perhaps helped a tiny bit.  

 

 

Yeah I have that derminator.com one . But I feel you on the apathy and laziness with it. I was enthusiastic about it during that recovery period, but only then. The gains are small and it is painful so it takes a lot of convincing yourself to stick with it you know. I do 1.25mm and and just get it over with. The temples make me wanna cry like a lil bish but every other part of my head it feels good weirdly. 

Theres slight bleeding, way less than Derek portrays in his thumbnails lol 😂 I'm sure you know. Maybe 1.5 would open a spigot though??... idunno. I'll gladly let you report your findings on that (;

I'm not sure there isn't any significance but I swear lifting heavy, the type where you feel like you're gonna pop a forehead vein (big belly breath in, heavy squats are best) and then sauna afterward kept my hairline good. The moment the gyms shut down I stopped lifting and sauna'ing, I started shedding more. And had to start up the hairloss protocol more frequently.. Completely anecdotal but yeah 

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12/10/21

I went to a business networking event last night just for fun, nothing to do with the company I work for. It was at a bar in Holborn and there were just over 40 people there but it was mostly men. I just wanted to enjoy a night out and wasn't expecting to meet tons of HB 9.8's.

It's been a while since I went to a proper networking event; the danger is to get stuck with someone for too long as some people just go on and on like that Greta idiot. I'd say there were only a handful of decent looking women there, some were pretty old or just not very attractive.  I missed my opportunity to chat to a couple of the decent ones but it's no big deal.

There was a Polish couple there impressed with the pronunciation of my Polski and my various travels around their native land. She offered to "find me a Polish Wife" and added me on Facebook to check out I wasn't a creep/psycho/complete loser. I probably failed the test because I didn't hear a word from her today but in all seriousness I think I gave her the impression that I'm not the kind of a man who will settle down with a girl and that was the issue. 

From a game perspective; not much to say about the evening other than you're better off doing daygame than these networking events in terms of quantity and quality of women.   One of the other downsides of night game is you'll be tempted to drink alcohol, lose out on sleep and this can mess with your vibe the following day. Like most dudes, alcohol is a gateway drug to fapping etc. and I think most men should try to keep that quite minimal if they really want to maximise their sexual intent.

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On 9/28/2021 at 7:23 PM, Alomongerpete said:

Ideally I would like to find a gf  - I'm not just looking to dick a girl down.

Mate If you walk around approaching girls with that mindset it would be hard to get number let alone get a date. Also many girls don't want relationship they just want the D . So have fun and in process the right one you will find it. Good luck mate 

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