Popular Post BruceXT Posted August 3 Popular Post Share Posted August 3 I have been in Kiev on a 1-on-1 with Steve from 28 July to 1st August. First of all a bref introduction about me. I'm an 46 years old Italian beta style male. I have a job that i like (computer programming) and many interest (martial arts, fitness, meditation, reading, videogames). I have an average look and and average salary. I have a very happy and full life but basically girls don’t bother me. Zero attraction. It’s about 2-3 years that i’m following PUA stuff with very few attention. First of all i saw Mystery. For my mental formation it was unacceptable. Basically he was lying on who is he and his experiences to people. I value a lot people time, and i don’t like to waste it AND i don’t like to talk to people that doesn’t feel my real thoughts interesting. Then on Internet i have found Steve Jabba and saw that his way of dealing honestly with girl can be sustainable for me. I’m quite a sensitive person, an even in videos on youtube i have been able to see how many attention and attraction is able to generate in girls (and it’s A LOT REAL). So in order to find a way to fix my lack of attraction i decided to invest in myself and to meet Steve and touch by hand this “Sigma Male Lifestyle” and “Primal Seduction”. The Sigma Lifestyle is hard. First of all you have all your life in few bags. Second hacking the system has a great cost IN TIME. Ok you don’t work, but you spend time hacking the system (by walking more, spending time in front of an PC, “queueing”… and ALL A LOT). Steve has reminded me a lot Arnold Schwarzenegger by the end of the “Predator” movie. Continuosly sharpening primal weapons in order to live and fuck girls that he likes.😄 The youtube videos showed me, the attraction he generates, BUT NOT THE ENVIRORMENT AND THE MOMENT THAT LEAD TO THAT. The word “Day Game” for me (Italian) has been misleading. I would prefer to call it “Day Work”. You have to be constantly aware of what’s around you. And awareness is not for free too… it costs A LOT of energy. In Kiev i have seen another PUA professional in Kiev (2 minutes of observation). He was like an Street Hawker executing a script. Like a mechanical Muppet activated by a stimulus. What i saw cooled by blood for how much creepy and evidenti t was (and beware, as i have seen this, also other people there could have done the same!!!) What was the script? He was trying to fake an accidental meeting. And this is a brief summary of what a “Day Game” is. Liying. Steve mitigate this sad reality by enjoying different envirorments, having fun, and by being (with social intelligence) “cocky” in wise chosen moments. We have been in various envirorments, gyms, parks, streets, beach club. It has been massively valuable for me to see how Steve analyzes “the living envirorment” around him in order to try to catch the best he can from the moment. And believe me, it’s impossible to formalize this on paper. What is written on paper is a sequence of words... the real world are multiple stimulus that you catch togheter. After 2-3 days of observations Steve has given me this thoughts on what he has seen about me and give me great advices. I really appriciated this. He wanted to see how i live and react to situations (with girls but not only). And guys, this is amazing wise. The location of Kiev is perfect to make a lot "trial"/"error or success"/"refine for next iteration". There the average girl is very attractive so it has been easy to be happy to approach! 😄 One beautiful things about all this approches (30+) is that in all of them i have seen little pieces of my real life and how i react to them. For example i have seen how much a good date can galvanize yourself and a not-replied message can hurt you. And thanks to the speed of these approaches i have seen how much manipulable was my self esteem… Basically for nothing; you know nothing about the girl you met. The only real things are that you want to fuck the girl and she stopped and perhaps continued to listen a stranger chat. Perhaps other things will come later. I’m very happy of this experience Steve is a fatastic and correct person and i’m very excited to return at home with this new primal perspective and to apply it. Thanks again Steve!!!💪💪💪 3 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HaveACuppaTea Posted August 3 Share Posted August 3 Glad you enjoyed your experience. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soyaan Posted August 5 Share Posted August 5 I'm glad you had good experiences while been in Kiev with Steve. I bet that all the technic & opservation was eye opener for you. The things you have learned from Steve , apply it when you go back home. Good luck mate. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maurice_bendrix Posted August 11 Share Posted August 11 Lovely review. A nice reminder that you cannot replace live-action. To see all of it whilst in the heat of things. Best of luck @BruceXT 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soyaan Posted August 12 Share Posted August 12 Maurice your English is excellent have considered writing books! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BruceXT Posted August 12 Author Share Posted August 12 Yes very refreshing to have a little stop a life full from the corona difficulties... Think here in my city in Italy i have i listen to young people saying "The people who don't get vaccinated should to a PCR test every 48 hours". ... Poor dumbasses that have unlimited resource unless they don't touch their wallet... Live-action changes as society changes... for example when i was younger it was easy to game with girls on the bus... there weren't the "great distractor": The mobile phone... or if it was present, it was expensive 😅 Let's adapt and cultivate our masculine energy! 💪 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soyaan Posted August 12 Share Posted August 12 Yes I'm 💯 on board with adapting masculinity energy. I seeing guy's walking with female friends aka friend zone 😂😂😂 they body language feminist energy they don't even pay attention to themselves. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soyaan Posted August 13 Share Posted August 13 Hi Bruce , I want you try a challenge more like experimental. Next time you go outside. Change your mood interaction with people special with womens 🤣you give them smile chatty try to expand your energy by smiling talking to people by casual Start conversation could be about weather , things you don't like on street. It's important not to be serious all time be fun outgoing, women's pick that up quickly.they will start conversations with you if you start casual chats. If you look to serious your face look serious they will get scared of you avoid talk to you.not that you do these things. This my personal experience. I talk to everyone the security guard at the shop, lady at the checkout desk. The bus driver,lady pushing babe chair,old couple on the bus, group of ladies. That will help you interact with strangers more effective. Please note this not attempt to tell what to do . This is just social experimental to opserve how your mood , interact effects people.and the outcome try use into your advantage what you have learned.other people on this forum can also try it. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YouSmallFish Posted August 15 Share Posted August 15 (edited) @BruceXT you look younger than 46, I'ld have guessed late 30's. I'm of the notion that you first need to know a structure and training with going direct in your conversations with girls. The pinnacle of game is "indirect/direct" or some would claim natural game, which you evolve to later imo. Which part of Italy do you live? I have been keen on visiting Italy in the future as holiday, if you want we can meet up and do some daygame. Edited August 15 by YouSmallFish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BruceXT Posted August 15 Author Share Posted August 15 Thank you @YouSmallFish my fridge works well! 😅 I live in North East of Italy in a city called Trieste. It's a nice small seaside city near the border of Italy. In every tourist town you can have great opportunities for daygaming. If you will come to Italy surely we plan to meet! Let me know your plans... from my side i have a full time job to manage. Sincerely i don't feel mine your idea of "progression" in the game. I tell you what i think it's good for me so you know how i live the game 🙂 In my opinion too much structuring before a ton of action is a waste of time.. in your plan only you may loose some emotions that perhaps you don't imagine to have: An example for me: After you meet "special ones" that you like, your game is affected. If then she reply/doesn't reply you, your game is affected. Perhaps a girl that you like is boooring... and your game is affected perhaps your fridge is empty and so on 😄! The most important thing is to put your ass on the street and live the experience with girls that you like with social intelligence. Obviously I'm fully aware that Count of street stops > Count of obtained numbers (contacts) > Count of dates with the girl > Count of taking home the girl > Count of sex And when i say > is not "m>n; m=n+1;" 😄 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HaveACuppaTea Posted August 15 Share Posted August 15 1 hour ago, BruceXT said: Thank you @YouSmallFish my fridge works well! 😅 I live in North East of Italy in a city called Trieste. It's a nice small seaside city near the border of Italy. In every tourist town you can have great opportunities for daygaming. If you will come to Italy surely we plan to meet! Let me know your plans... from my side i have a full time job to manage. Sincerely i don't feel mine your idea of "progression" in the game. I tell you what i think it's good for me so you know how i live the game 🙂 In my opinion too much structuring before a ton of action is a waste of time.. in your plan only you may loose some emotions that perhaps you don't imagine to have: An example for me: After you meet "special ones" that you like, your game is affected. If then she reply/doesn't reply you, your game is affected. Perhaps a girl that you like is boooring... and your game is affected perhaps your fridge is empty and so on 😄! The most important thing is to put your ass on the street and live the experience with girls that you like with social intelligence. Obviously I'm fully aware that Count of street stops > Count of obtained numbers (contacts) > Count of dates with the girl > Count of taking home the girl > Count of sex And when i say > is not "m>n; m=n+1;" 😄 I know Trieste quite well, been there a few times, I had a Pakistani friend that used to work at the ICTP. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Soyaan Posted August 15 Share Posted August 15 I never been to Italy but it's interesting country with alot of history beautiful buildings. The Italian language is beautiful language but it sound hard to speak. I only speak Dutch,Somali and English, little bit same Arabic words. If you wanna go their go for it. Just plan well so everything is smooth. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alomongerpete Posted September 28 Share Posted September 28 Nice review and glad you enjoyed Kyiv. Amazing city 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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