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  1. Hi, my name is Bruno and I'm from Brazil. I'll be honest, I have notions in English and I can often understand texts and even what they are saying. But I'm still learning to get fluent in the language, so sorry I had to use a translator (laughs). I discovered this site, rummaging through the internet about this enigmatic personality that is sigma. And looking at each feature of the sigma I saw that I would fit this type of personality. Of course I still don't consider myself one. I don't know if there are differences from country to country, because in my country Brazil we have an economic difficulty. I don't know if telling this makes any difference, but it's always good to say the context in which I am inserted. I currently live in a favela, and here in Brazil earning a salary of R$5000.00 reais (which would be equivalent to 991 US dollars or 818 euros) is to live well and stabilized. Here a minimum wage is R$1010.00 reais (200.22 dollars). People who live in favelas usually earn R$1500.00 reais (297.36 dollars) per month and are happy. I told this just to create a context where I come from. I always wanted to be a man dependent on myself, I always wanted independence. I never liked to follow anyone, I even had my doubts about entering this site here, for fear that I would be following. I am currently unemployed, and am studying to be a website developer. My dream is to work as a freelancer or digital nomad. And not forgetting, I'm studying English (laughs) so I don't have to use a translator. I forgot to say my age I am 32 years old. I always worked for someone, unhappy but I had to work for others. Well, I joined this site to learn how to be a sigma male. I would also like to be more self-confident with women, but the truth is, what I would most like is independence. Not that I don't care for women, but independence for me is everything (financial, emotional and even physical independence). Well I guess just for now, sorry for huge text.
    4 points
  2. Just had a few fun weeks with the lads here in a secret undisclosed location. Whilst it was fun, it refocussed my mind on why I've always preferred to do game solo i.e. without a wingman. Here are my reasons: 1: When you game with another man, conflict will ALWAYS arise. Now, I try to be as objective as possible, but I have to say the conflict I get into has virtually always been through others accusing me of ridiculous stuff in a very petty way. For example: The way I walk. I tend to walk quite fast, at my own pace and am often quite expressive in my body movements. I've been accused of deliberately trying to "value tap" and "steal attraction", merely by walking as I want to walk. Absurd. I "steal" the IOIs off girls, again as I go about my business. I've heard things like "I don't blame you...I'd do it too.." Again, through no fault of my own, SIMPLY BY VIRTUE OF MY PRESENCE, I've had to listen to this whiny crap. 2. In the couple of weeks that I hung out with them, I saw 2 other instances of conflict (not involving me) because of one guy crashing into and "stealing sets / attraction" Look...Some girls will just prefer 1 guy over another..No matter what you do. I've written books about game, I spend time with guys who have examined this from every conceivable angle there is. And that's the reality. She's just a girl. Why get into arguments with your mates about it? Unless you're going to marry this girl, it just isn't worth it. Real solid male friendships are more important in my view. So why get into these situations in the first place? Understand: it's not because I avoid conflict. I simply cannot be arsed with this kind of puerile silliness. The easiest way around this problem is to just go off on your own and do your own thing. Compartmentalise daygame especially, and if you're out at night, try to approach women on your own, or just avoid entirely unless you're very sure it's not going to lead to a daft argument. I realise I'm at odds with a lot of guys on this, but I've witnessed the scenarios above enough times that I know I want no part of it.
    3 points
  3. All right. I've decided to reform my old ways and carve myself from marble. Youse nattering ninnies ain't got a donkey dick to match my Tijuana-grade bravura. The end of days are nigh, my friends. Better y'all scarper off and let the BIG BOY reign. Measurements: Height: 5'10" but the stature of a titan Weight: 164 pounds Waist: 34" for feck sake Chest: 41" R. Bicep: 15" soaking wet & at most generous angle of tape measure Neck: 15.5" (but a latent 17" is lurking underneath) Dick: Tijuana-grade donkey dick Youse perverts are clamoring for pictures; they'll come shortly (minus the donkey dick). I'm not fucking around with this. Sincerely, Your executioner
    3 points
  4. I think men are equal measures to blame. We need to grow up; seriously; truly. One of the reasons why feminists rankle so many men is because they're incomplete little bitches (the men; not the women). Callow, feckless, dithering little babies. Why do you think superhero movies are so popular? Men cannot mature past their childhood fantasies. Plz read books from writers of the Lost Generation. I daren't say we are a pale comparison, because we're incomparably sad. Children! Real men are compassionate towards women, and sturdily disagreeable towards anything else: Boohoo...women are mean to you? Who gives a fuck? There are plenty who're nice given that you hand yourself over as an INTEGRATED, MATURE, & RESPONSIBLE man. Mansuetude is a good old word; unfortunately for us, the first three letters aren't a welcome introduction.
    3 points
  5. just one final post to wrap this 7 day journal up. i met the girl again who i'd taken to my apartment after our date. we went on a little excursion and ended up fucking in my car 👍 i love day game. i've missed not being able to talk to girls on the street. even though it's far from sunshine and rainbows and quite emotionally demanding (at least i find it to be so at times) the sets that hook and lead somewhere are so worth all the effort, rejections, flakes and time invested. little summary: 20 sets of those 20 only 8 led to number/insta exchanges of those 8 only 3 led to messages exchanged of those 3 only 1 led to a date (so far) for me it's all about turning over stones and seeing what's under there. my "game" on the initial approach is mainly just opening, vibing , showing my sense of humor and finding out about the girl. when approaching strangers on the street there's no way to know what the hell is going on in their life. if they're busy, engaged, married, stressed, having health issues, family issues, rushing to work, etc etc etc the list goes on. so a little context for the date i ended up going on. the girl was basically just up for it. she'd literally finished her exams the day i met her. she hadn't been able to travel or have adventures for ages because of COVID, she liked me, she wanted to practice English, she had time off work that weekend. basically things just lined up. but the only way to find that out is to flip stones (open sets) anyway enough rambling, as i've been out of day game for so long - just the odd approach here and there - actually committing to it for even just a few days consistently was really decent. also a big confidence boost - just a good reminder that i have plenty of options and that it's in my power to create opportunities. anyway, i'll fire up another journal next time i hit a new city, it's been good and i'd recommend it as a source of encouragement and way to get the thoughts out of ones head.
    3 points
  6. What’s up my dudes? I’m Jimmy Elliott. Came across the SIGMA male videos on YouTube and identified so hard I nearly busted a load in my shorts... still have a lingering chubby whilst writing this post. I’m from the Bay Area California - Los Gatos specifically; which, is a very nice place to live with an abundance of opportunity. In short, I was born privileged... handsome, hung, and honest. While on the ‘H’ adjectives, I could use more humbleness and humility. That’s some leftover ALPHA shit I’m still trying to shed. As such, after a bad relationship, I quit my job, sold all my possessions. and took off in my car to travel the U.S. while working on my book titled, “I Apologize In Advance: An Unsavory Life of Privilege and Fuckery”. I’m 33 years old and just now able to perform self-psychoanalysis on myself after reading most if not all of Goethe, Nietzsche, Jung, Freud, and Watts literature on “exploring your dark side” aka “shadow work”. If you haven’t already, look it up. Also, I recommend “Academy of Ideas” YouTube channel as an introduction to getting started. In any case, I’m happy to be here and learn from all of you. Never had an issue attracting women but can help many of you in that arena if desired. Rather, I am curious about how to make money running a “side hustle”. I work at Facebook and am damn good at my job but it’s not my passion. That, my passion, is writing. I’d love to continue to travel and write without the constraints of corporate America so if any of you are successful, and have done good advice you’d like to share, I’m all ears. Cheers 🍻
    3 points
  7. Country: Poland City: Cracow Level Of Coronavirus Restrictions: 6/10 (from May 15th bars are open again) Mask Wearing In Street? YES, but no one will give a fuck if you don't want to Mask Wearing in Shops: YES, and they will give you a hint to put a mask when you enter General "feeling" - Poles slightly more fearful than I was expecting. Natural hospitality is decreased. Bars / Restaurants Open? 50/50 Day game Possible: Yes. Cracow is one of the oldest cities in Poland. It was originally Polish capital for quite a few centuries. Also one of the oldest Universities is placed right here. Due to its multicultural history it has a tourist rate at 10 million a year. You can find very attractive girls from the whole of Poland, and also many young tourists. * FROM MAY 15Th Polish government had loosened some restrictions * Hotness of Women: 8/10 Difficulty of Approach: 7.5/10 City Liveability: 8/10 Nightlife: 9/10 Overall Rating: 8.1/10 Best Approach: Daytime / Bars / Concerts / Student Parties / Everywhere Cracow isn’t a big City therefore its perfect for long day game sessions. But let’s be clear it is the number one nightlife City in Poland. I must say it is very safe City. Of course there are some areas when I wouldn’t recommend going. Gangs from the major Cracow football clubs have an agreement so the nightlife is safe. There is some pick pocketing in buses and trams but this is being monitored, so it's decreasing. There are some obvious spots when you can always find lots of people to meet. Most crowded places are: Main Market Square, Plenty, Galleria Krakowska and Railway Station Main Market is good for day game and night game. You can almost always find people here. During summer this is the most visited place for travellers. I personally like to walk from Railway Station which is kind of combined with shopping mall Galleria Krakowska. Sometimes you can spot some cringe day gamer or to here… lots of fun. I live near so it is almost my daily route. You can walk across or around the plants. The route will finally get you to…. Vistula River banks near to the Pawel Castel This is the number one destination for Carolinas weekend walks. You can enjoy nice view of the Castle and there is 5 -10 min walk to other cool spots. Main place here is Forum Przestrzenie - which is a trendy place for few years now. It is very cool place to drink beer during the day, but it's also cool place for night game. https://www.facebook.com/forumprzestrzenie/ From there you can chose your path to Planty, Kazimierz (Old Jewish District) or Podgórze . Planty Is a boarwalk around one of the biggest meadow in the city. This is best place to take your in-line skates and pretend that you cannot skate and ask for some help one of the great looking girls whitch love to skate round here. But watch out – you're not the first one who know that method… Some polish cringy sport guys with zero night game know exactly that Blonia is the place to meet hot girls… You have also some FoodTrack spots around so you can pick a girl on an instant date here. If you have dog hire – you know what to do with it J Błonia separets to Hostlite Sport Teams Statiums Wisla and Cracovia so its not the best place to be here before and after the football match. Any other time it's super safe. Here You have some pics of it https://www.instagram.com/explore/tags/błonia/ Kazimierz This is the best place for night life – very small square area of Plac Nowy with rounded famous casserole gastronomy is the best place to meet people. .. By the way I don’t recommend to eat that casserole’s much – they're made for tourist and often you will have some nausea after. I do strongly recommend instead to eat from foodtracs. You can pick a least 4 spots of foodtrack places on the Kazimierz . The Clubs here are small and Crowded. Most people like to sit, drink, and chat, but there are some of the best dancefloors here too. I must mention Alchemia, Singer, Taawa, as the oldest – but competition is only growing…. Hevre for e.g whichused to be a beautiful synagogue. Some good multitaps, beer houses and lot’s of more. Grab and watch for yourself: https://www.instagram.com/explore/tags/placnowy/ This night scene exploded so much that Cracow have grown to one of the sex travel destination. We don’t have here Red Light district so the sex clubs are scattered all over OldTown and Kazimierz… I don’t recommend to visit them at all. This business is all designed to scam you out of money. Where To Stay In Cracow, Poland Thera are AirBNB’s and hotels all over Cracow. I strongly not recommend this very close to the Center due to the prices. But most western guys can afford that luxury so it’s up to you. 30 euro per night it a fair price. Most AirBNB are small but with quite good interior. Keep in mind that Cracow is an old city so some tenementt houses are in bad shape inside, but flats should be clean. Transportation Cracow dosen’t have a metro, but it’s not a problem at all. Public transport is good and clean. Buses and Trams are almost all new. You have at least 3 private companies Uber, Bolt, My Taxi - drivers are the same, they just switch applications J. You must be ready that most of them are Ukranian. Taxis are good too, but mostly driven by old Polish guys who know city well, but they don’t know English… so they might appear grumpy. They’re not… they like to talk a lot – at least with me. Of course there are lots of CityBikes, e-Skuters and Lime Skuters… so pick what you like.. For me the best is to walk almost every where .. I pick a Taxi as a return from night game, when I’m drunk or in a hurry. Taxi during the rush hours its not the best option. Way faster you will get to your point of destiny by public transport or bike…. How To Meet Women In Cracow, Poland Polish girls really visibly give +1 for foreginers. But they have a sense for weirdos.. Polish guys are not so good, so you don’t have a real competition here… just watch out for White Knights. I do recommend to take long walks all over around, take some cafe, eat some, and talk to girls selling you this… Where to meet women in the daytime? This is the worst section for me to describe. I’m doing this almost anywhere I go. I live here and not going anywhere soon. Though it;s not recommend to stick to very popular places… just past them across, get familiar with them. Cracow has a ZOO which is also very crowded during summer.. Lots of museums and other typical tourist attractions.. Nightlife In Cracow The best place was Dolne Młyny – but they shut it down recently… At the and of its life it was pretty run by PUA morons… Here, have a glance https://www.instagram.com/explore/tags/dolnemlyny/ Last year COVID-19 situation change a bit in a night sceen… but there will be opening soon and I hope it will be a bit similar, https://www.facebook.com/hypeparkkrakow We will see.. I will write more when I try it… The best thing ist that Cracow is relatively small City and pubs and bars are everywhere.. there is no problem that you will get caught in one place and have to drive far to another. You can easily take each beer in different bar in different quarter of the city… P.S. You can always direct message me if you want some more information, I’m also quite open to give you a free tour if you want to come here…
    3 points
  8. 1. If you're new to the forum, please use this thread to introduce yourself. First of all, welcome. We are happy to have you here. Please introduce yourself! Say where you came from (the Sigma Male or Steve Jabba Youtube Channel?, the Steve Jabba website, a Google search?). Tell us what are you looking to get out of this community, and so on. This is a friendly community of budding Sigma Males who want to hear your thoughts so get involved! Hit reply to this topic and become part of the community. 2. How To Get The Best Out Of The Community. At the time of writing, as of 14/05/2021, this website already gets considerable traffic and membership is growing. There are plenty of members on here who lurk and are just waiting to get involved. The best thing you can do to get the most out of the community is : 1: Introduce yourself on this thread 2 : Scan around recent threads and offer your opinion. Get involved! The more you talk with others, the more others will talk, and the more the community will grow. 3: Start a topic if you like. It can be about anything. You can use this forum to : make more money meet hotter women get better looking Or you can lurk and get little benefit. The choice is yours! 3. A Note On Member Rankings : The member ranks are modelled on the socio - sexual hierarchy, i.e. Omega Male, Beta Male, Sigma , etc. The rankings are based simply on the amount of posts you've written. It's just a bit of fun, but if you check your profile and see "Omega Male", you'll know what it's about. Please do not get offended, and do not think it is directed at you specifically. It's intended to be humourous but also...maybe..to encourage more posting! I'll see you in the forums and welcome again! Steve Jabba
    2 points
  9. Even if you are married you can learn from this forum and notions of the redpill that would be beneficial for the your marriage. Many older guys than myself around here, either single or in a relationship. Hang around and feel free to contribute whether you feel like getting your message out there.
    2 points
  10. If you're new to the forum, or haven't even yet signed up, this is a great way to start your journey as a Sigma Male. Watch the video, do the mission, then reply with your results. 😍
    2 points
  11. Hi all, I did the challenge Friday night while out. Altough I have gotten significantly better with women I must admit I was a bit nervous after Covid locking us up. I couldn't tell you what I was talking about to different groups of lads and lassies. The main thing I have to say to anyone doing this is that nothing bad at all happened. People either start with low or high interest in you. It can be hard going out on your own and feel like it is a bit weird talking to different groups especially now, when each group is supposed to be at a table. It probably will take a few more nights out to get that nerves out, but we can all do it.
    2 points
  12. Thanks for the explanation. I've just placed my order direct with the company in the UK. Good to know they're a subsidiary of L'oreal. Your skin does look very good for your age but I definitely think genetics play more of a part in skin health than lifestyle. I've also heard great things about copper peptides applied topically with this source apparently of high quality; https://reverseskinaging.com/
    2 points
  13. There are many situations that alter a mans ranking in SSH. The only position you never want to hold, at any time, is the dredded GAMMA. At the age of 20 I got my heart ripped out of me by walking in on my girlfriend with another man. I decided that point to mimic alpha behavior to deal with the pain. It worked well in bars and clubs and I did okay with women. But then the delusions started setting in. I was basically pretending to be a person I was not. I was pretending to be a strong confident man but really behind the persona I was a scared shitless kid. During the time I always wanted to be an alpha male because they got all the women and had the status I wanted. So by mimicing an alpha I formed an insane dilusion bubble around me. I wasn't confident nor effective but the entire time I thought I was. In reality, I was a fraud with a massive drinking problem, expanding waistline and huge ego.. I married my (ex) wife a few years later under this false pretense. I would constantly remind her how awesome I was and how she struck gold with me. But after 3 years it was pretty apparent that I was useless not only to provide for her but also myself properly. When she left I told myself, "she'll be back, because i'm awesome." She filed for divorce a year later. That's when I realized something had to change... If you are in a Gamma delusion bubble, rest assure that you will lose. Life will be very difficult. To be a real confident man, you must ditch the self-entitlement and get to work. Build quality skills that help yourself and others.
    2 points
  14. Just posted this on my YT channels. It's now the channel trailer on both the Sigma Male Channel and the Steve Jabba channel. I am also spending my own money showing this video as a retargetted ad to both audiences who have watched at least one video from either of those channels in the last 90 days. This is what's known as a "warm" audience, so should have the highest chance of conversion i.e. they sign up here. We need more dudes here taking action. Make it a warm introduction to them lads. Give em something to talk about..I cannot do it all alone! Cheers!
    2 points
  15. Session today from 4:30 pm to 8 pm I wanted to do a little session to write a topic about Tallinn. I wanted to know how girls react when a stranger approaches them during this corona period. 1/The first girl, as soon as I leave my apartment I approach her from the front with a "hi" and a smile. I ask her if people are careful with the corona here. She tells me that no, but she was wearing a mask... She looks cool, she tells me that she will take her train soon. Works in Tallinn and studies web design. She learns French a little. I go with her for 5mn while chatting until the station. 2/I see a woman with a big dog. "Hi, lions are forbidden in city, you know ?" She smiled and laugh but didn't answer. I tell her that the dog is very beautiful and ask for his name. Silence of 10 seconds. "Cheese." Me : "Cool have a nice day". 3/I approach a girl at a tram station to ask her if she thinks Estonians are afraid of corona. I didn't have time to finish my question, her tramway arrived and she got on it. 4/While leaving I met a pretty girl carrying flowers. I walk past her and tell her that the flowers make her look sexy. She snubbed me. 5/The girl sitting on a bench. Small interaction of 2-3mn. I told her in passing that she looked like a Vermeer painting. Smiling but just polite in her answers without committing herself too much. I take the opportunity to ask her what people think of the corona in Estonia. They don't care, she tells me. 6/On the way back I see a girl with a purple dress. I really like the color. I approach her to tell her that she chose well her outfit for tonight. She thanks me with a big smile. 7/Pretty girl who walks fast, I catch up with her while running. I think i scared her, she put her hand on her bag. Me : "I was going to La tabla to eat some spicy Mexican food. And I had to tell you that you're super hot." Her : "What is it with people today? I'm dressed normal! Why do people come?" Me : "It's because you drink Hesberger's cola, that attracts people." M : "And also because you're so pretty. I used to be pretty too, but I stopped." She stops to tell me she's going in another direction, but I keep walking and say "bye." If she was interested she would have followed me. 8/ Just after I walk in the park. A little tired from running and not very creative. I just ask for directions. 9/The prettiest girl approached. Hit and run compliment in passing to a beautiful Estonian girl. 10/On the way back I hang out a bit and I see that the girls are starting to be in a hurry (most of them are going home after work). I see two rather young girls walking. I just ask them if they know a nice open bar to end the session.
    2 points
  16. In think after a few months this forum and community will begin to take shape. At the moment, we don't really know each other well, there have been no meetups, no events and so on. That can change over time. I've said since the beginning I hope that this community will be useful for all of us members in the future. You always need friends and allies- and make no mistake - whatever you've seen or heard about Sigma Males, we're all the same. I just wanted to point out that the right kind of community can be fun, healthy and empowering. The current group of reprobates I'm with are basically all introverted, all highly independant...And yet the group works out well . Here we are in Belgrade, Serbia. There's 1 of us missing in the picture, (he's a little camera shy) There's a lot of banter, a lot of piss taking but with this group of dingbats they all understand that it doesn't go too far. When you hang out with cool guys who get it, banter and piss taking can be fun. I'm enjoying it, especially with my new role as the resident fat bastard of the group. Just look what happens when I bug out early for the night and they carry on (listen carefully to that evil Goblin Nick Krauser booming out his opinions about my weight and waist size:) I must say, I'm back in training again and feeling pretty chipper. I will soon be applying for contract work too, on top of the other things I'm doing. Why We Need Community You've all seen what's happened over the last 18 months. It should be shocking to you how much power Governments the world over wield over your day to day life. Think carefully about the lockdowns, the rules, the restrictions. Even if it's all rolled back, it should be wakeup - call to you all as it has been for me. WE NEED EACH OTHER. If we have to go old school, and help each other earn money, get a job, find somewhere to live..So be it. This community could develop into a giant extension of the communities we all associate with in real life, where we share talents, resources, ideas and so on. If things go dark, we may need it. Keep logging in and please - if you're a lurker - come out of the shadows and say something. Introduce yourself. Contribute. Reply to posts, tell us what you think. Offer value and you'll get it back. I'll see you in the posts.
    2 points
  17. Hello - I found this forum a few weeks ago and read a few bits on here, so figured I'd start a journal for the next 7 days during a trip to Madrid. I will post daily here for the next 6 or 7 days.
    2 points
  18. Hi guys, This post is for people who already have a website and a mailing list (at least 1000 subscribers) and some products to sell. This is an advanced topic but I wanted to talk about it to help you make more sales quickly and start creating your nomadic sigma life ! Since 2012 I live from my activity of artist on the net. I create one information product per year, and for each new course I use the "product launch formula" technique to promote each course. The problem with the method is that it was originally designed to create a buzz and make a lot of sales in a short period of time for a big website. It is not adapted for a site with a small audience. Now my site has 25 000 subscribers to the mailing list and a traffic of 350 unique visitors per day. Its not big enough... The big sites (over 100 000 subscribers in their mailing list) launch twice a year and generate their annual turnover in 2 weeks. Only with a small site, you can't just do 2 launches or you will have trouble to have a decent money at the end of the year. So i needed to adapt this sale strategy to make people buy my courses as often as possible without bothering them. You have to do a maximum of launches during the year to increase your turnover. The problem if you have only one product and you see the sales decrease over time is that the people not registered at this course already know this offer and they already decide not to buy it. By sending mails over an over, you risk annoying them by offering them the same course/training. And they may unsubscribe from the mailing. Also this method requires sending many emails... So how to send a lot of campaign, get sales and not bother the mailing list ? A minimum of 3 products would be a good start to use the monthly launches. This way the subscribers to the site will always have something new to read and learn, and the customers will be able to buy other courses again. It is easier to sell to the same customer than to sell to a new person. With this method i can : preheat the list make them interested and want to buy my courses without pushing for a sale be sure that the maximum of people stay on my list and don't complain about receiving too many emails The idea is to create reciprocity, social proof, and commitment among prospects. Instead of leaving the product open for orders all the time, it is much better to create urgency and the desire to buy by only opening the sales during a short period. Usually sales follow this pattern. Lot of sales the first and last day and a little spike in between. The method was created by Jeff Walker. He has taught this method to hundreds of people who have their business online. My mentor has been part of his mastermind for over 10 years, so I got this technique from him but adapted to my small audience. For a successfull product launch we will need : your product(s) a mailing list and an autoresponder (aweber, mailchimp, activ compaign) a quiz 4 videos (hosted on amazon s3 for example and their url) a checkout page (like Thrivecart, Samcart, Clicfunnel) a pdf to download as a gift The first week we do a "pre-launch". This week is used to warn that a registration opening is going to happen and to start arousing the curiosity of my list. Mail 1 : test the prospects and make them curious We send a small quiz of questions in the theme of the product that we are going to sell. The idea is to make "test the knowledge" of the prospects. What do they know about the subject? At the end of the quiz they will have a score with a personalized message. If they have a bad score, the message will tell them "it's not serious, you can still improve, next week you can see 4 videos to improve". If they have a high score, the message will tell them "Great ! You already have the theory! With the 4 videos coming next week, you will be able to see the application of the concepts". Mail 2 : show your expertise The first video is used to introduce yourself and show that you are an expert in the field. A good way to do this is to present the "7 mistakes beginners make". This allows you to position yourself as an expert and shows prospects that they have things to learn from the next videos. If we have testimonials from students who have succeeded with our method, we can add some. Of course, we also present the program of the following videos. At the end of the video you ask to let a comment. Mail 3 : teach how to have a quick result We send the second video, this one is only a demonstration, a tutorial that explains a technique. The ideal is to have a technique that can be applied immediately while the prospect is watching the video. He must be able to test live and see that he gets a small success. This will make him understand that we can help him if in a few minutes he has already made progress. Mail 4 : another technique and more details about the program A second tutorial with a technique that makes the prospect progress quickly if possible. The difference with video 2 is that we will start talking about the program of the course that we will sell. "This technique is developed in detail in the course xxxx whose registrations will open very soon". Like this we create anticipation for the full programm. Mail 5 : my material list and the main program Last video, here we continue to give value and teach things to prospects except that we will alternate tutorial and presentation of the program. An easy way to do this is to offer a list of materials. We can present the modules of the course during the list. "We will use this tool in module X of the course to get result Y" The second week we start the "launch". Mail 6 : show the program only We send the program page without allowing people to register (so the checkout page but the order button is inactiv). Like this the can read the full detail and make them more excited to buy the day after. It shows that you are not pushy on the sale and creates a slight frustration for people who would like to sign up right away. They will be more responsive when we send the next day's email with the link to an active order page. And we announce that we will send one tip per day by email until closing time. Mail 7 et 8 : open the sales We send 2 mails the day of the opening of the inscriptions. A mail in the morning and a second in the evening. We must be sure that people know that the course is open. From this first day, we send an email every day. We send valuable content/tips/techniques to keep the relationship going. You don't send emails just to sell, I like to keep a ratio of 80% content and 20% sales in each email. Very important, I add a link to the checkout under each video of the last week. That way people who open my emails late can be redirected to my payment page if they decide to sign up. Mail 9 : give value and answer objections We continue to provide value and we will also answer objections and questions about the course. In order to keep the mail from being too long, we can answer 1 or 2 objections per message. Most of the questions are "is it for beginners?", "do we have lifetime access?", "does it work with mac or pc?", "can I send you my exercises for correction? , "Can i download the videos ?", "I'm afraid to pay by internet, can we make a bank transfer?" In priority its better to answer the questions about the transfer and the checkout. Mail 10 : show how to access the course In order to create a small sales spike in the middle of the opening week, we can add a new video on the checkout page in which we show the registration process. This will make people more confident to buy. We will simply record our screen while we make a payment simulation on the checkout page, we show that we receive an email with a login and how to use it to connect to the site. We can also show in the video, the lesson menus and the first comments for the social proof. Mail 11 : create an ultimatum The second last day, we warn that there are only 2 days left before the closing. At this time I add a counter on the checkout page that will reach zero in 2 days. I continue to answer the questions that are asked by mail, I remind that there is a money back guarantee of 30 days and always give a small demonstration / exercise. Mail 12 and 13 : close the sales As the first day, the last day we send a mail in the morning and the last one in the evening. It is important that the closure is achieved and that people can not register after the deadline to show that we are serious, next time they will register faster. Mail 14 One week later, I send a small gift (a pdf to download) to thank the prospects for still being registered on the mailing list and for having followed the launch. And you can repeat this process the next month with another product. Of course, you can use a bump offer, an upsell/downsell on the checkout page. It will be even better ! So much for the product launch strategy. There are still a lot of details to explain and especially how to carry out the steps technically but I reserve that for future publications. If you have any questions about the launch, you can ask me and I will try to answer them.
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  19. I don't believe there is a gender crisis. Women are women, men are men. In terms of sexual attraction, not all that much has changed on a fundamental level since we started to walk upright, and not much will. It's easy to make a bigger deal of stuff like this than needs be, especially if you gorge on manosphere content. To repeat, as I've said inumerabe times: Most manospehere writers are simply unhappy and bitter because they've been treated badly by women / never got the success with hot women they wanted. Or are jealous of other men And so on. As much as like the current incarnation of RooshV, I include him in this catgory. A man who has had the best of women is not so bitter, or jaded, or inclined to construct elaborate theories as to why they are broken. Sigma rules, explored in enormous depth in Primal Seduction: Look in the mirror first. Why do bad things happen to you? Assume it's your fault. Deal with reality.
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  20. That was always my biggest failing. Trying to make up for it now. Thanks for your insights man. I'd love to get everyone posting on this thread.
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  21. At the very least it would help you to develop the skills of speaking persuasively, forming cogent arguments (even if it doesn't prove terribly lucrative at first). Nothing's wasted!
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  22. I wanted to show you a practical tool to choose your photos to put on your Seek Arrangment profile. This site allows you to have people vote on your photo series. Before this service was called "hotornot", now the website is https://www.photofeeler.com/ In order for people to vote for your photos, you have to vote yourself on the site. A paying option is possible to receive votes automatically (about 10 dollars per photo). You can choose to set a goal for your photo (business/dating/social) The voting criteria will not be the same depending on the category you have defined for your photo.
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  23. BTW: from the little I watched, I'd rather share a beer with FACEandLMS than any of the others. He strikes me as quite a bit more intelligent.
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  24. Life is too short to shit on others. It's better to lead by example; strangely the adage for good storytelling is applicable: show, don't tell. Often you turn into the things you focus on; if you spend your time in the muck of bad ideas, then you too will be covered in shit.
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  25. As back up dates, I've changed my Tinder location to Warsaw already. Damn..much better quality than what I get around town in my home country over here. I aspire an indulgence in polish debauchery during my stay.
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  26. I have read Primal Seduction. What really stands out in my mind after reading some of the book is mindset. In particular assertiveness. From what I have read and know about Steve Jabba is that he is very very assertive. I agree with this mentality. Can you please tell me a little more about being assertive from your point of view. In particular I believe in what Steve Jabba believes about assertiveness. However in practice I have found a bit more difficult to be as assertive as Steve Jabba. Do to things like covert aggression. Covert aggression allows a person plausible deniability and the ability to frame you as over reacting. How does Steve deal with covert aggeression? Or people framing you as too aggressive or sensitive etc? Thanks
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  28. Propably on your cellphone was good enough before... on my S9N scrolling and navigaion was disturbed a bit - now ist fixed position so navigating feels more like using an android app not webpage.
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  29. I recall when I was a much more callow youth, I'd sometimes get pangs of anxiety when comparing myself to other men's appeal to the ladies. "Where do I fit on the totem pole" I'd wonder. Worse, I didn't get laid until I was 19, so when conversations about sex came up..I'd get very quiet all of a sudden. And hope to God no-one asked me any questions about girls I had shagged! I had girlfriends of course, but being a nervous sort of chap I was unsure what to do until a girl literally jumped on my dick. After that, I became unstoppable. 😃. I realised that it isn't a big deal at all. All of that fuss over...That? I'm 45 now and I can tell you that for about the last 10 years, especially in the last 5, there is not one shred of anxiety or worry about where I fit on the totem pole vis a vis appeal to women. A big part of this is because I've had way more than my fair share of course, to the extent that if I'm in a roomful of men, I can pretty much guarantee I've bonked more women than any man in the room..Or most likely, all of them combined. 😃 This isn't to brag, merely to illustrate a point. I've been hanging out with a bunch of dudes recently, and for once one of them gets a few more IOIs than me..Maybe. Whatever. The point is, I literally couldn't care less if some guy bonks 10 times more women than me nowadays. Or if I bonk none for prolonged periods. Truth be told, I'd often rather read a good book than engage in sex. I guess the point of this post is that if you're younger and inexperienced, the jealousy and insecurity of other men quite likely fades with age. However, I do think there's a caveat to this : guys who have not had their fill of women and have always felt lacking in this regard can become WORSE with age if they don't address the problem. I've seen this time and again, mostly on my training sessions but also through careful observation too. Remember, I am trained to read other people quickly and accurately, both men and women. So you basically have 2 routes : 1: Bonk as many women as you can until you reach the position where you simply don't care anymore and have nothing left to prove. Right to your core, you feel satisfied. This takes effort and force of will. 2: Simply accept that you will never be that guy if you cannot summon the will or effort required to improve, and embrace it. Be at peace with yourself. There aren't any other options as far as I can see.
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  31. 😄 Thank you Steve ! Hope lot of people will publish their mission soon !
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  32. As far as I understand it, you're going to Poland this summer - both Krakow and Warsaw. I think you'll be meeting @Jason Harimauin Krakow? Regardless, both are perfectly safe even alone. The only slight bit of worry in Poland is radgy Polish guys who can be a bit thin skinned and insecure when they see Polish women with foreign men. Keep your wits about you, don't mouth off and you will be perfectly fine. I can tell you from very extensive experience that many parts of England are far more dangerous than virtually anywhere in Central / Eastern Europe. When you live in a mostly white city / country, you simply don't get the same kind of trouble you get when muds / blacks start invading in large numbers. They always cause more crime. ALWAYS. (Look it up if you don't believe me) The trouble will virutally ALWAYS come from gypsies in these parts of the world - but especially in places like Poland, the local police are well aware of it and keep a very watchful eye on these undesirable types. Most gypos are nowhere near physically big enough to be a physical threat, and they do not, repeat do not carry guns in my experience. Experience : nearly 10 years travelling to these countries. You simply don't see it, especially in the touristy central parts where you will be hanging out. In terms of Mafia, there are some in places like Bulgaria and Moldova, but believe me, they don't give a damn about a skinny Belgium lad like you, or a fat English lump like me either. Unless you act like a dickhead and get in their face, nothing bad will happen. To be frank, the Balkan lads are very friendly, much more so than Western European men, so they are more likely to invite you for a drink! In short : Western Europe is far more dangerous due to shitskins / muds and blacks, and it's absolutely nothing to worry about in Central / Eastern Europe.
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  33. I'm Tuco 33 from Manila Started doing nightgame from RSD and Mystery method then 4 years ago started doing daygame exclusively through London daygame model which I found from twitter and learned a lot from different people doing it. I want to learn more about how to piece it all together and maybe put it here since twitter is very limited in writing. I do videos. Before commercials and films now remote working for... still videos I'm introverted but love crowds like pubs and dive bars. Played in lots of bands and acted in some tv shows but still not good with hot women. Learning game in the Philippines, tried winging with local PUA's but they're all vanished now since the local lair got cancelled from feminists. I hope this forum lasts and give back what I got from the field. cheers
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  34. Post of the week goes to @maurice_bendrixfor his insightful analysis of the psyche of the modern "man". I agree. I find it hard to listen to men whine about women. Puts it in perspective, no? It's become quite popular to dump on women ; you only have to look at the popularity of manosphere youtube videos and scroll through the comments. A litany of whiny, mealy mouthed little faggots all crying about how unfaaair it all is that women won't suck on their shrivelled little weiners! Does anyone have any thoughts on this important issue?
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  35. Hi guys, Sorry for being a bit absent, I am doing many things these days and barely have time to go online. I want to start a new topic about this subject: what the heck is what with Sigma and risk taking !?!?!? I noticed almost 100% of Sigma male are "calculated" risk takers: extreme sports, extreme decisions in life, risky business undertaking.... Share here your experience with extremes. I begin with mine: I started doing motocross at very young age, if I could I'd probably had a motocross bike at 6, but first one arrived at 14 yo, so was using bicycles instead I am still at it now, at the age of 45 🙂 I drive all kind of fast cars in tracks, including scary formula cars (baby formula 1 cars, they have less power but they weight nothing so they fly !). And in life, I abandoned everything I have ever known in Italy and moved permanently to China with a wife and kid. Share yours, if you want. Cheers, Simone
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  36. Hi Guys, I am Y aka blackwolf. Been wandering all my life. I am the same age as Steve, similar career background, similar body type and i resonate with a lot of what he says. I realised the sigma male lifestyle in my 30s. I practise yoga, calisthenics, play my guitar and sitar, write songs and indulge in spiritual/philosophy on occasion. I coach startups and companies for a career and the pandemic has been a boon for me that lets me work remotely. Right now I am a german permanent resident. I was born in India, went to school in the US (UCLA) and worked there for over a decade before embarking on a wandering nomadic life. I am fascinated with surviving out of the system, invested in crypto, and I aspire to have multiple citizenship residences so that I can stay low-key and optimise my business and dating success. My biggest sticking points are sexual/physical escalation in the interaction on the first meet. I need time to open up on a physical level with the woman. -Yami
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  37. I know this isn't a popular topic with Steve, BUT - people shouldn't sleep on this. Do some research and look at whats going on with alt coins not necessarily Bitcoins. Look at projects like VeChain and Cardano and look at the real world use cases. Crypotcurrency's are going to play a major role in the future so worth doing some research and coming to your own conclusions. Being a sigma you need financial independence to travel and live the life you want and smart investing is a piece of that puzzle. Theres some good youtube resources out there, and just like in pickup you have the fakes and the authentic channels.
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  38. No problem at all my friend, just a thought. I'm glad you are posting and I hope it helps.
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  39. 32 views, not one person with an idea how to tackle this issue. This gives me the impression close to no one on this forum, other than @Steve Jabba has had actual infield experience.
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  40. I first found out about Game in 2005 when the book was released. I clearly remember I was on the bus to work in Birmingham, and I saw a little insert talking about the book in the Metro Newspaper. I kept thinking about it all day, and first thing on Saturday morning I marched to the local Waterstones and bought my copy. I devoured every page eagerly and finished the book within 18 hours, reading almost non-stop. Not that I was a beginner myself. I was 29 when I first read the book, and already something of a legend in my hometown with a big reputation as a ladies man. I'd estimate I'd already slept with 90-100 women. Nevertheless, I was intrigued. A system for meeting women you say? All I knew was going to nightclubs and bars alone, spotting reactions from women, escalating and then meeting them again...Or going home with them. Little did I know that I had already developped my own system which was actually superior to anything I'd read in the book..Or would discover afterwards. After reading the book, I realised my system needed to be put on steroids. Cold approach was the powerful steroid I needed. I began devouring all the information I could get my hands on. I chased down the Fast Seduction Forum. It wasn't like the pretty forum that you're reading this on. It was merely a hodgepodge of links and aticles, all written by men (mostly geeks) going out and trying their latest routines around the major cities in the USA. Fast Seduction Forum Is Back! EDIT : It's not back, it still points to the forum that Richard La Ruina took over, and it has to be said..ruined. I kept hunting and ferrreting around for more information. There must be a local group I remember thinking..It cannot be all weird Yanks approaching women in big packs. Eventually I discovered the LSS (London Seduction Society)..Don't bother looking, it's been deleted. I was invited into the group, and immediately began attending their events. I became a legend on the LSS. People began to recognise me. I got a reputation as a guy with an x factor - some way of approaching and attracting women that no one else could see or replicate. People were astonished at how quickly I could escalate and pull it off. I remember on a few occasions I went out to a nightclub with one of the admins and supposedly a "legend" on the forum. I made out with 6 women that night, sometimes right in front of his eyes, sometimes without talking. He was an analytical guy that wsa trying to piece together game from reading, trying routines and trying out his IVD's and other technical game stuff, but he just couldn't wrap his head around what I was doing. I had learned well over the years. I could just sense when a girl was ready and knew what to do next without thinking. I was what they called a "natural" - but only through years and years of going to nightclubs alone and learning my system. 13 years of effort and learning had paid off. I posted voluminously on the LSS forum. Once I went to a nightclub and approached 7 women. I bonked 3 of them over the next week, plus another girl I'd met from the week before. I wrote a post about it on the LSS - "4 lays, 6 days". It became one of their most widely read posts ever. I then began cold approaching in earnest. I had the world's worst AA to begin with , especially in the daytime. My first ever daygame approach was in Milton Keynes shopping centre when I asked a hot Iranian girl working on a perfume stand an opinion opener about which aftershave was better..I had pre-sprayed 2 different ones on each wrist. She seductively told me the one on my left wrist, big brown eyes eating me up whole. My back leg was shaking, I went red in the face, my voice stammered. I have always had anxiety and daytime approach exacerbated it 1000 fold - despite being experienced at seducing women. After about 30 seconds the anxiety faded and I became my normal self. I fucked her that night - my first ever daygame approach. Something like this. Fast forward to now in 2021. Now the Sigma Male is all the rage. Doubtless a lot of you will have seen the videos with B rool footage, voiced over by a robot AI English accent. They look great no? Let me tell you what they are about : they are videos put together by repurposing articles about introverts on sites like introvertdear, and they are designed to massage your ego and appeal to your baser instincts. They describe an aspirational figure such as a Sigma Male in a sufficiently vague but enticing manner to appeal to your vanity, to make you think BY GOD THAT'S MEEEEEEEEEEEEE, so that you're drawn in, to watch more videos to feed your insatiable desire to "discover more about yourself". It's all designed just to put ads in front of you and make money. It's dick crack for self obsessed introverts. I guarantee you, whoever is making these videos has not lived as a Sigma Male or done anything like I've described to you in the introduction to this article. And before you say "ah but they get a lot of views, and you don't"...That's actually not true. I have simply lost interest in making these videos because I got tired of seeing the same old boring comments: THANK GOD! I now know what I am..I am a Sigma Male! (NO, you're not mate) Sigma Males don't approach women A Sigma Male doesn't need to tell us he's a Sigma Male Women approach the Sigma Male. He doesn't need to do anything. They just land in his lap. You see a pattern? Navel gazing little nobs that don't want to do anything, that think success with hot women will just fall in their lap. So self absorbed they cannot get enough of videos that make them temporarily feel like they've done something..Without putting any work in at all. YUCK. I have to admit....I cannot stand simpering little faggots like this. Oh, and Youtube is like a slippery bar of soap. The minute you stop posting, it drops to a base level again. Fuck that. There is no future in it, at least for me, at least on this topic. I place my hopes in this forum. THEREFORE... So What IS A Sigma Male? What a Sigma Male REALLY is should be obvious. I've spent the better part of this article giving you the merest introduction. I know why you are here. You want to get better women, or get any women at all, and you want the freedom and autonomy that a Sigma male enjoys. I've written the article this way to paint you a picture of what you're going to have to do to get it. There are already nearly 300 members on this forum, yet very few actually post (and you know who you are, because I have sent you a personal message). I know most forum dwellers are just that : lurkers..But I want to remind you : the world is a cold, unyielding place. A man must go out there and take what he wants, carving out his existence when no one cares about you, your feelings, how much pussy you are getting.. Or whether you choose to call yourself a Sigma Male. Watching videos that appeal to your vanity will do nothing for you. Reading articles on here is better, but still useless. Taking the Sigma Male test and then scanning around to understand what it means is pointless. I made that test to get you interested and to get you here. If it was an ACTUAL test, then the vast majority of you would get a score of 0. It's supposed to be a BEGINNING. Do what I did! This forum is a million times more open, user friendly and pretty than I had to deal with, but I inserted myself in every group, met as many people as I could, and I started approaching women in great numbers. I did stuff and I wouldn't let anyone stop me. I ruffled more feathers in my first month on the LSS than they'd seen in the 6 years prior to my arrival. It was like letting a fox into a henhouse! But I got what I wanted, and I built a ton of respect. (I haven't even mentioned what happened when I first began releasing infield videos. My 3rd one went viral and was seen over 500,000 times. It's still recognised as being one of the best pickup videos ever.) NB I know the thumbnail isn't displaying. Please just read what it says on the thumbnail and watch it on Youtube. There is nothing wrong. So what should you do? DO SOMETHING. Get involved on here. Post. Ask questions, make a nuisance of yourself. Reply to posts. Network. Why would you even ask what you should do? Identify what you want, and go after with with everything you have. There are people on here that can help. But no one is going to spoon feed you, least of all me. Remember : The world doesn't care about you. It is harsh and unyielding. It's your job to go out and make things happen. So forget about the Sigma Male test, or videos you saw on Youtube. Go out and talk to some women. Start writing a blog, or post a journal on here - there is already an audience here for feedback. But don't just sit on your arse and expect it all to fall into your lap. It most definitely will not, despite what you might have seen or read online.
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  41. I second that: arrogant, outgoing and privileged by nature and nurture makes some interesting dark triad traits in young individuals. Welcome comrade.
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  42. Good post. I think learning another language is a worthy pursuit!! And I personally find daily practice, however small, is the trick. Re women: you should learn a language regardless of whether women find it attractive; do it because you want to.
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  43. I'll throw my support behind this government programme idea; sounds perfectly sane...in fact, we'd be insane not to try it. Serious question: what do you think the typical wait time will be? I don't know about you guys, but I'm keen on some action. Also serious question: I really like the idea about weeding out the disabled; but I've only one concern: now bear with me on this, because it'll sound crazy at first: what if we're the disabled ones? Last question: If I've a government girlfriend and an Xbox Live girlfriend, technically speaking, which one is my mistress?
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  44. @Steve Jabba "for what is simply a lack of attraction or spark." Amen. My inspiration for this topic mainly came from a review of scientific literature about casual relationships from Sam Vaknin:
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  45. Short video without the mic attached I recorded today whilst drinking a G & T on the main street in Sofia! Thank God summer is here. Thinking about it, I might throw this up as an ad and see how it does.
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  46. Yo! Welcome to the forum man and interesting backstory. Sounds like you are indeed living the Sigma lifestyle. The label "Sigma Male" or "lone wolf" is just that - a label. It's a term used to describe patterns of behaviour - nothing more. There is just so much interest around the topic right now that a lot of guys seem to romanticise the concept and imagine a Sigma is some kind of super - hero. All a bit gay, to be frank. Here is a good introduction, if you haven't read it already :
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  47. Thank you, It's great to read this from you 👍
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  48. Hello guys, I'm 35 years old, French, I'm an artist who blogs on the internet and earns a living that way. I was born in the South Pacific and have been a digital nomad since 2014. I have lived in Sliema in Malta, Krakovie in Poland and in several cities in Germany. I live in Tallinn in Estonia currently where I joined a group of French entrepreneurs. I am very interested in martial arts and combat sports, a little bit in men's fashion/perfume and other subjects related to personal development. I've never been good at languages, but I'm currently challenging myself to learn Russian as my girlfriend is Estonian/Russian. I started the game in 2006 by reading "double your dating" and followed 2 daygame coachings (which I much prefer to nightgame). I started following Steve Jabba on youtube before I discovered his website. I also ordered his books and Secret Society. I particularly like his approach to dating which I consider very relevant for the introvert that I am.
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  49. Hey, Im Facino, 23old living in the USA. Theme "Living outside the Hierarchy" had an immediate appeal with me. I have always felt the urge to carve out my own path; Have always felt that the only person qualified to tell me what to do is myself. Most people who proport to be authority figures in the current world order do nothing for me but arouse contempt and disgust; I would rather avoid their influence as much and wherever possible. FRom the above it shouldent be concluded that I'm unwilling to learn from others or think I know it all. Not true at all; I'm always willing to learn from those I respect who are farther along the path then myself. that's my main reason for joining the forum in the first place. For some background; Not much to tell, same familiar story; chronic under achiever; let anxiety and depression get the best of me for many years. I've put it behind me through, and I'm ready to do the things I need to do to improve my situation; "Best time to plant a tree was twenty years ago, the second best time is right now" and so on. Came across Steve's content some time ago. He has proven track record and a no bullshit attitude that I appreciate. Like how he gets the point across that you don't have to be a social monkey or act like a buffoon to get good with women. Feel like this forum will be a great place to meet men with similar mindset and goals. Main interests: Game for introverts Making money outside hierarchy General self-improvement Look forward to seeing the forum grow and adding any value I can Cheers Facino
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  50. Yes, I prefer the old style special effects as well, with animatronics, prosthetic makeup, scale models etc, yeah, I liked Jason And The Argonauts, also the Sinbad films and Clash of the Titans. I used to like "The Storyteller" (TV series) do you remember that, with the Jim Henson puppets and narrated by John Hurt?
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